This post is all about you can organize you home for hospitality and fellowship.
Here, I will show you why it is important to create an inviting home, how you can maximize your space for your needs, and give realistic tips for hosting.

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A home for hospitality (an introduction and story)
For the first two years of my husband’s medical school, we lived in a very cramped, 700 square foot apartment. The kitchen, dining room, living room, and study were all thrown together in a 12 foot by 40 foot room. To say that it was embarrassing would be an understatement. When we had company, we would crowd 10-15 people around a table meant to fit 6. We used the windowsill for seating and everyone had to step over each other.
Yet, despite the inadequacy of our tiny apartment, we chose to make hosting Sunday brunch a priority.
It was amazing how our friends would say they looked forward to it each week. It was a time for everyone to laugh and de-stress from a chaotic week. Often, one or two people would stay later than everyone else for a deep conversation or prayer.
No one seemed to notice or care about the cramped space. They didn’t want a perfectly timed meal or aesthetic dining room, they simply wanted connection.
You don’t need a perfect home for hospitality
Often, the thing that stops us from taking the first step into opening our home for hospitality is that we are embarrassed by our house because it isn’t instagram worthy. We are worried about what people may think if they see our small, or messy, or imperfect living arrangement.
But the truth is: you don’t need a perfect home to practice biblical hospitality. You need an open heart and a little bit of intentional preparation.
Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality. – Romans 12:13
Keep reading if you are looking for practical tips on how you can open up your home for hospitality. This post will help you think through why hospitality matters, the truth that your space doesn’t need to be perfect, and 21 intentional ways to organize your space to make hosting simple and joyful.
What is hospitality?
Hospitality is the art of being welcoming to friends and even strangers, inviting them to partake in a meal or embrace fellowship. The Bible exhorts us to be hospitable as an outpouring of love for God and others. 1 Peter 4:9-10 tells us to offer hospitality and use the gifts we have received to serve others without grumbling. Romans 12:13 commands us to share with the Lord’s people who are in need by practicing hospitality. And Hebrews 13:12 tells us to show hospitality to strangers.
From these verses, it is clear that hospitality is not just about having close friends and family over. But it is about getting slightly uncomfortable to have acquaintances or maybe even people you don’t know over. It is about welcoming everyone for the sake of the gospel.
Hospitality doesn’t require fancy meals or a perfectly styled home.
But it does require a welcoming spirit and a caring heart.
How often should you open your home for hospitality?
Although there is no “one size fits all” answer to how often you should open your home for hospitality, there are a few guidelines that the Bible gives.
We know that the early church was characterized by breaking bread and fellowship (Acts 2:42), and Hebrews 10:25 warns us to not give up meeting together. So hospitality should occur on a regular basis, but the specifics will look different for each family, depending on your circumstances and the season of life you are in.
Remember: hospitality is about creating space for connection, comfort, and fellowship. Those things are not one-and-done. Rather, they require continual, intentional acts of hospitality.
Why it is important to create an inviting home
As we have seen above, Christians are called to be hospitable. The main reason for this is because Jesus Himself was hospitable (he did feed a crowd of five thousand). The second reason is that we can share and live out the gospel with others when we are hospitable.
A home for hospitality reflects God’s heart
Opening your home for hospitality is a reflection of God’s heart. It mirrors his invitation to us. Jesus called us to “come to Him when we are weary and burdened, and He would provide rest” (Matthew 11:28). When we are hospitable to others, it gives a chance for them to rest as they throw off their burdens. Here they can fellowship, be encouraged, and share a meal with friends.
A home open to hospitality builds community
Although our culture claims to be more connected than ever, social media has inadvertently disconnected us. Everyone is stuck scrolling on thier phones, looking at posts of friends seemingly happy lives, thinking they they are connected with a curated view. However, when we take the time to open our home for hospitality, we see that life is not the same as portrayed online. There are so many nuances to our friends and acquaintances that we only get to know when we get offline.
In a world connected only through social media, opening our home for hospitality matters more than ever.
A home open to hospitality blesses everyone involved
The old saying that says “it is more blessed to give than to receive” is especially true when it comes to hospitality. Not only does opening your home to others bless them by providing friendship, good food, and community, but it also blesses the host by providing those same things as well as a chance to serve.
Remember: small acts of welcome can have an eternal impact.
21 ways to organize your home for hospitality
Here are 21 ways to practically organize your home for hospitality. This list will help you get over the fear and trepidation of hosting, enabling you to enjoy serving others in your home.

Entryway tips to create a warm first impression
One of the key’s to hosting is to make your guest feel at home. The entryway is such an important part of hosting because it is the first thing your guests will see when they enter your house.
1. Declutter and clear the entryway
Nothing is more awkward than entering a home and being bombarded with clutter. If you have a formal entryway, consider spending some time sprucing it up to make it welcoming. If your entryway leads directly into the kitchen or living room, consider how you can make a cozy welcoming nook for your guests.
2. Have a place for your guests
One of the best ways to make your guest feel immediately welcome is by having a designated and easy to see place for their belongings. Consider adding a table, hooks, or a basket for your guests’ coats and bags.
3. Create a landing pad
If you like for your guests to remove shoes when they enter, place a small bench or stool next to the door for easy removal.
Living areas: create conversation spaces
A living room is a great place to encourage conversation because of its comfortable and cozy atmosphere. Here are a few tips to help you prepare your living room.
4. Encourage genuine conversation
When bring guests into your living room, the placement of your furniture matters for heartfelt conversation. If your chairs are centered around the TV, it sends a message that you are more focused on what is going on in the world than in your own home.
Instead, arrange your seating to encourage conversation by creating a circle or semi-circle. The furniture should be far enough apart to walk between, yet close enough to hear whoever is talking across from you.
5. Remove distractions
The biggest distraction in a living room is the TV, so make sure it is off when guests are over to facilitate conversation. Other distractions are found in excess clutter that limit the space from feeling peaceful.
Some distractions for guests are less obvious, and include things that take focus off of the conversations. This could include a guest feeling chilly or not having a place to put their cup. Try to anticipate your guests’ needs by placing a throw blanket within arms reach or coasters on the coffee table.
6. Make use of decorative storage
Homes are meant to be lived in and not museums. Because of this, they will not always be company ready. In order to reduce the amount of effort needed to exert before friends arrive, use baskets to quickly corral kids’ toys or other stray items in. This is a system that reduces clutter and saves time.
Dining area: preparing for gathering
When having guests over for a meal, the dining room is typically the most used area. Consider implementing these tips to help your company feel welcome.
7. Clear surfaces
Always keep your dining room table clear of clutter, not only for your families sake, but also to make your guest feel at ease when it is time to eat. There is nothing more awkward than arriving at a friends home and watching as they frantically try to find a home for the 5011 items that are piled on the table.
As much as it is possible, have all surfaces cleared and wiped down so they are ready to be used.
8. Use simple centerpieces and decor
Although a centerpiece may be beautiful, it quickly becomes a nuisance if it blocks you from seeing the person sitting across the table. Use simple centerpiece that can be removed or easily seen over when serving food. Likewise, keep the decor to a classy minimum to keep your meal from feeling like a child’s birthday party (unless it is, of course, a birthday party).
9. Keep extra seating nearby
Undoubtedly, you do not regularly have more seating that what you regularly use around your table. Because of this, consider keeping extra chairs on hand for when you have larger gatherings. Make sure you pull out any seating you many need before guests arrive and have the chairs placed around the table ready to go.
Kitchen: simplify and streamline
The kitchen is the heart of the home, and as such, it has a lot of work pumping through it at all times. Here are some ways to reduce the burden.
10. Declutter countertops
Consider decluttering your kitchen countertops so that you have space to prep and serve food. Many of the items that we keep on countertops are only used a few times a week and would be better stored in a cabinet to free up space.
11. Keep essentials easily accessible
As you get more comfortable hosting guests, you will notice there are serving pieces you reach for more regularly than others. Consider keeping these items in the same, easy-to-access location to save you time.
12. Designate spots for guests
One way to make company feel at home is to have clearly designated spots for common things such as drinks or plates and utensils. If you are not setting the table in advance, consider having a place to put everything guests will need, such as a drink cart. Putting all of the drinks in an easy to reach area will help guests feel at home since they don’t have to ask to be served.
Guest comforts: thoughtful touches
Have you ever been a guest somewhere and felt immediately at home but didn’t know why? These tips will help you achieve that feeling for your company.
13. Have comfort items within reach
Depending on the season and where you live, consider keeping out comfort items to help your guests feel at home. These include blankets or throws within reach of the couch, coasters for drinks on the coffee table, or a small fidget toy to keep hands busy.
14. Keep toiletries stocked and obvious
One of the most awkward things is going to someones house and using the bathroom when there is no toilet paper anywhere in sight. Don’t be that house. Keep an extra roll or two of toilet paper in an easily seen location within the bathroom for guests to replace if necessary. Along with other basic toiletries, consider keeping a bottle of lotion out during dry seasons to help your guests feel comfortable.
15. Create a welcoming scent
The smell of your home is an important part of making your company feel welcome when opening your home for hospitably. Ensure you take out all of the garbage and remove anything that may have odor (i.e. a cat littler box). Lighting a candle might be a nice touch, or if you are a non-toxic home or just unsure of your guests’ scent tolerance, consider baking some cookies or other easy desert right before your guests are set to arrive.
The welcoming aromas of baking are sure to make anyone feel at home.
Flexibility for kids and families
It can be difficult for parents with young children to be guests in someone’s home because of the effort required to keep the children in line. Here are some tips to put kids and families at ease.
16. Keep toys or books on hand
If you do not have any children currently in your home, consider going out of your way to have a small basket of toys or books for when little ones are around. It is especially thoughtful if you have things that could work for a variety of ages, as sometimes older kids may be left out of the fun.
17. Have simple snacks available
Whether you are cooking a five course dinner or just hosting a simple get-together, place some simple kid-friendly snacks within easy reach for parents to choose from. This will help put parents at ease if they have picky eaters or their littles are just extra hungry.
18. Child-proof your home
If you have your great-grandmothers 18th century vase as the center point of your living room, consider removing it before families arrive so that you can enjoy getting to know them without worrying about the vase. Likewise, if you have rooms with especially nice furniture that you would prefer to keep pristine, close off that room. Not only will you be more relaxed, but the parents will also feel more at home since they are not worrying about all of the expensive nicknacks their children may accidentally knock over.
Overall home readiness
Here are some tips you can implement in order to make hosting more of a second nature instead of a panic-inducing one time event.
19. Establish a weekly routine
One of the least enjoyable parts of hosting is the “panic cleaning” 10 minutes before company is set to arrive. Establish a weekly cleaning routine that hits the important areas of your home and reduces the panic.
20. Keep a checklist
Keep a go-to checklist of tasks to quickly refresh your home when guests are coming, and update the list regularly as you develop your hosting rhythm.
21. Focus on progress
Remember that an organized, welcoming home is one where people feel loved, not impressed. Because of this, focus on progress and not perfection when it comes to the organization and flow of your home. Instead, spend time working on yourself and preparing your heart and attitude to be a hospitable host.

Maximizing your home for hospitality
No matter what your home looks like or its location, there will always be an excuse of why it isn’t good enough to open for hospitality. Instead of letting little details get in the way of hosting, embrace your space. Remember, whether it is large or small, it can be used for God’s glory if you let it.
You don’t need to have a big budget for hospitality. Rather, work with what you have. Get creative with multipurpose furniture and involve your family in preparing the home and practicing hospitality.
Final tips for hosting
Opening your home for hospitality can feel like a lot. But it doesn’t have to. Start by focusing on people and not performance. Relationships will always be more important and more valuable than instagram-worthy table settings or the perfect meal. Speaking of which, don’t stress about throwing together a five-course dinner. Instead, have a couple signature dishes and make them on repeat.
If you want to become good at hosting, then you will need to host often. Like anything, hosting is not a skill you can learn overnight. It takes time, dedication, and even a few mishaps along the way. But don’t let one burnt lasagna stop you from opening your home again and again.
Closing thoughs to open your home for hospitality
Hospitality is an act of love and obedience, not a competition. Your guests will be able to feel if you are more dedicated to creating a post for instagram or concerned about loving them well. Take some time to consider your motives for hosting and them practice one or two ideas from this list this week.
Invite someone over soon – even if it’s just for coffee. Enjoy the friendship that occurs when you open your home for hospitality.

























