What is the meaning of “Selah” that we find throughout the Psalms? What can be learned from David’s writing on how to pause when life is overwhelming?
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Some days are overwhelming. For me, the overwhelming days are not the ones where I am super busy with a lot on my plate – I thrive in chaos. The overwhelming days are the ones that I don’t have a huge structure set. I fill my time watching TV, reading books, scrolling on my phone, or just doing nothing.
At the end of the day, I find myself overwhelmed. I feel like my day had no purpose – like I accomplished nothing. Some days it is good to rest and do nothing, but some days I need to hit pause on my aimless wandering. I need to pause on the emotions that so easily come to the surface. I need to hit pause on the thoughts of worthlessness and self-doubt that are always so eager to fill space in my head.
Instead of allowing myself to sit with thoughts that are not of God, I need to pause and meditate on truth.
What The Bible Tells Us
If we look back through the Bible, we see that David – a man after God’s own heart – paused many times when writing the psalms. A simple word is used. Selah. It does not have a definite meaning. Many people think it has to do with pausing, kind of like an interlude. Others think it is a musical term, denoting that the whole orchestra stops playing, and only one instrument is used, giving that single instrument recognition. I like to think of Selah as a whole note, sometimes an uncomfortable pause, and sometimes a relaxing one, drawing the listener in for the next notes to be played.
Selah reminds me of Romans 8:26-27, “In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans. And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God’s people in accordance with the will of God”.
Sometimes (more often than not) when we are feeling overwhelmed and the enemy sends thoughts that are not of God, we want to pray. But in our weakness, we do not know how to pray or what to pray for. Thankfully, when Jesus ascended back into heaven, he sent the Holy Spirit, and the Holy Spirit intercedes for us. Even though we do not know how to pray, the Spirit is going to God on our behalf. When we pause from life and look to God, He shows up for us. He gives us peace, even when we don’t know how to ask for it.
Selah when facing death
In Psalm 3, David has just fled from his son, Absalom, who wants to see David dead (this world has always been a little messed up). David starts by writing a prayer to God, Saying:
Lord, how many are my foes!
How many rise up against me!
Many are saying of me,
“God will not deliver him.”
And then… David Pauses. We see the word Selah in the footnotes. When I imagine David in this situation, I see him thinking “Okay, this is how I feel, but I know that my feelings have lied before. God help me to focus on your truths rather than on my own insecurities.” After taking a pause, David continues:
But you, Lord, are a shield around me,
my glory, the One who lifts my head high.
I call out to the Lord,
and he answers me from his holy mountain.
After David made a conscious effort to pause from his own feelings, he was able to redirect his thoughts to meditate on God’s Truth. Again, he pauses. Here, I imagine David thanking God for His goodness. Yeah, David’s circumstances are not great, but he is able to rest in the knowledge that God loves Him and wants the best for Him. After another pause, David continues:
I lie down and sleep;
I wake again, because the Lord sustains me.
I will not fear though tens of thousands
assail me on every side.
Arise, Lord!
Deliver me, my God!
Strike all my enemies on the jaw;
break the teeth of the wicked.
David again starts off praising the LORD and reflecting on His goodness. But David is human, and his mind starts to go back to fleshly struggles. David writes that all his enemies be struck down. Here, I imagine David wondering if his will is lining up with God’s will. Sure, David has his enemies, but aren’t all people children of God? David takes another pause, again redirecting his focus onto God.
From the Lord comes deliverance.
May your blessing be on your people.
What a powerful way to end. David is admitting that God is love, and God loves all his children. God desires a relationship with all of His children. Here, David is acknowledging that he is in a situation he does not want to be in – he is hiding from his own son. And David also acknowledges that deliverance can ONLY come from the LORD. David also concedes that all people belong to God, adding that God’s blessing is on His people. David pauses as he reflects on God’s faithfulness to him.
How to Pause
When the overwhelming moments of this life come, how do you pause?
Acknowledgement
First, you have to acknowledge what is overwhelming you. Lay it all before God. God already knows what is in your heart, but He wants to hear it from you, so don’t be afraid. If you want to yell at God, go ahead! It is better to address what you are feeling than to keep it inside of you and ignore God or ignore the source of your pain.
Selah
After you have brought your pain to God, pause. Give yourself a second to breathe and allow Holy Spirit to guide you back toward Him. Don’t be afraid to take a break and sit in selah.
Redirection
Once you bring to light what you are experiencing, decide in your heart that you are not going to stay in that place. Instead of remaining in the emotions that separate you from God, focus on his truths.
Here are a few to get you started.
Romans 5:5 – And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.
Colossians 3:12 – Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.
2 Thessalonians 3:5 – May the Lord direct your hearts into God’s love and Christ’s perseverance.
Meditation
Finally, Praise God for His goodness. Praise God for his unfailing love. Praise God that He never gives up on His children, but always pursues them in love. Praise God for all of His blessings to you.
The art of Selah – Pausing before God
Life can be overwhelming. But the good news is that God cares about what you are going through and has made a way to help you through it.
When life overwhelms you, be still before God. Wait on Him and His timing. Ask for His wisdom. Ask for His will to be done. Focus on His truth. Reflect on the past and remember how God has been faithful before. What He did in your past, He can do again.
Take some time out over your overwhelming day to Selah.