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How to curate a minimalist wardrobe on a budget

Filed Under: Minimalism // April 8, 2025

This post is all about how you can curate a minimalist wardrobe while on a tight budget that fits all of your needs!

Did you know that the Average American spends almost 20 minutes each day deciding what to wear? And they typically only wear 20% of their clothing, 80% of the time. If either of those sound like you, it might be time for a drastic change. Creating a minimalist wardrobe may be exactly what you need to feel confident in your closet, while reducing your consumption and time spent figuring out what to wear.

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What is a minimalist wardrobe?

Simply put, a minimalist wardrobe is a carefully curated closet set to fit your personal needs. Although people often insist that their “capsule wardrobe” needs to fit specific criteria and design (and, let’s face it, price), it can be any closet that is paired down to only the pieces you love and feel good in.

There are quite a few different varieties of the capsule closet. So here, I will introduce you to some of the more popular ones. This will help you get a feel for what kind of capsule wardrobe you would like to implement for yourself.

Capsule Wardrobe

The capsule wardrobe is the most basic type of minimalist closet, with the least amount of “rules” surrounding it. This wardrobe prioritizes your personal style and lets you be the mastermind behind how many pieces you want to keep. It also tends to group clothes seasonally, so you would have a different capsule wardrobe for winter, spring, summer, and fall – although some of the articles can overlap.

This wardrobe is perfect for anyone who wants a simplified closet without giving up their creative license.

Project 333

Project 333 was made popular by Courtney Carver in her book: Project 333: The Minimalist Fashion Challenge That Proves Less Really Is So Much More. The rules for this capsule wardrobe include only wearing 33 articles of clothing over a 3 month period. Although accessories, outerwear, and shoes count toward your total count, a wedding ring, underwear, workout clothes, and pajamas do not. You can choose any assortment of items that you want, as long as they add up to only 33.

This wardrobe is perfect for anyone who wants to give minimalism a try for a season.

The 10 item wardrobe

The 10 item wardrobe is another seasonal option which is made up of only 10 core pieces. This wardrobe includes only tops, bottoms, and dresses, while shoes, layers, and accessories are excluded from the count (but still kept very minimal). Although this option is the most extreme, Jennifer L. Scott from the Daily Connoisseur and author of Lessons From Madame Chic, argues that most french women live this way naturally.

This wardrobe is perfect for anyone who wants an extreme minimalist wardrobe.

When to create a minimalist wardrobe?

There are many reasons to create a minimalist wardrobe. Whether you are going through a life change or you just want to simplify your life. Here are a few reasons people choose to have a capsule wardrobe:

New job
Pregnant/postpartum/breastfeeding
Weight-loss journey

New Job

If you find yourself in a new career where you have to dress a certain way that you didn’t need to before, and you don’t want to spend a lot of money, a capsule wardrobe is perfect. Consider going with the very minimalistic 10 item wardrobe and use versatile pieces you can mix and match for more looks.

Pregnancy, Postpartum, and breastfeeding

There is no season in a mother’s life where her body will change more than having a baby. I love using a capsule wardrobe to help me feel my best during this time by sorting through and changing out my clothes every three or so months. This is because each trimester of pregnancy brings different sizing needs and clothing styles, not to mention the change in weather drastically impacts a pregnant body. Postpartum is also a difficult time to learn how to dress as your body changes again, and may never return to pre-pregnancy shape. There is added difficulty in dressing if you choose to breastfeed as well.

Because of the major changes that your body (and lifestyle) go through during these stages, I recommend trying a capsule wardrobe and changing it out every three months. Keep any clothes that don’t fit during your current season in easy to access storage, because you might find that your favorite pair of jeans will fit again in a year.

Weight-loss journey

A capsule wardrobe is perfect for anyone who finds themselves on a weight-loss journey. When you are putting in so much work to be healthy and lose weight (whether for health or personal reasons) you deserve to feel good in the clothes you wear. It can be pricy to purchase a new wardrobe in every size that you go through, so consider keeping it minimal and only purchasing a few pieces you love.

How to create a minimalist wardrobe on a budget

Creating a minimalist wardrobe does not have to break the bank. In fact, it can often help you save money as you discover your style and finally feel good in your clothes. Here are the steps to creating a capsule wardrobe on a budget:

Set a monetary goal
Decide how big you want your minimalist wardrobe
Decide on if your minimalist wardrobe is seasonal or long-term
Declutter your closet
Fill in any gaps you have

Following these steps will ensure that you gain a closet you love without breaking the bank.

Set a monetary goal for your minimalist wardrobe

Before you even begin the process for going through your closet and designing your perfect capsule wardrobe, it is important to first set a budget. Consider how much money you have to spend in total to get your wardrobe where you want it. Whether it is $5, $100, or $1000, having a goal in mind will help clarify decisions when forming your wardrobe.

Decide on how big you want your minimalist wardrobe to be

The next thing you will need to consider is how big you want your capsule wardrobe to be. Think about your lifestyle. Do you need professional clothing for work, casual clothes for the weekends, and workout clothes for hot yoga? Maybe you are a stay-at-home mom who wants to dress more preppy or a world-class traveler who loves comfort. Whatever your lifestyle is, you will want to take it into account when you decide on how big you want your closet.

Another deciding factor for determining the size of you closet may be how often you do laundry. You may need a large capsule wardrobe if you hate laundry and only do it every two weeks. While you could go with the minimalist 10 item wardrobe if you don’t mind doing laundry every couple of days.

Finally, consider how big your current closet is and the main reason for wanting to go minimal. If you are already starting with a small wardrobe, it may be easier to pair down to a 10-item wardrobe. Whereas if your closet is quite substantial, you may find a capsule wardrobe more to your liking.

Decide on if your minimalist wardrobe is seasonal or long-term

The last thing you will need to think through before beginning your wardrobe journey is the length of time you want your closet to serve. If you live in an area that experiences all four seasons, you will probably do best with having a seasonal capsule wardrobe. However, if you live somewhere that does not experience too much change in the weather, you could probably make do with one long-term closet.

You may also decide to do a short-term minimalist wardrobe if you are experiencing drastic body changes (pregnancy or weight-loss). Or if you just want to try a capsule wardrobe for the fun of it.

Declutter your closet

Now that you have thought through what kind of closet would suit you best, come up with a budget, and decided on how long your wardrobe would last, it is time to declutter your closet.

There are many ways to do this, but my favorite is to start by pulling everything out of your closet. Once it is all out and in a pile, begin by picking up each piece and asking yourself how it makes you feel. Does it fit in with the style you are going for? How does it make you feel when you wear it? Is it worn out or still in good condition?

As you go through each article asking yourself these questions, hang up the pieces that you want to incorporate back into your closet. Make a donation pile of the ones you are ready to let go of. And start a “maybe” box for any you are not sure of or do not fit with your current season.

After you have done this initial declutter of your closet, you may find that you have more clothes that you wanted for your capsule wardrobe. This would be a good time to go back through the clothes in your closet and pair down so you only leave the number in your closet that you wanted. You can decide to donate the others or place them in your “maybe” box for later.

minimalist closet — Where will you begin with a minimalist wardrobe?

Fill in any gaps you have in your minimalist wardrobe

If you notice that you have some gaps in your minimalist wardrobe, take note of what they might be. Then, whenever you go shopping, look for only those specific items. If you already have in mind the things that you need, you will be less tempted to spend money on excess clothes.

Don’t feel like you have to go out and purchase new clothes right away, part of the joy of a minimalist wardrobe is making do with what you have. However, if you need to buy a few pieces, you can do so without guilt because you have already thought through what you truly need to fill out your closet.

Additional tips for building a minimalist wardrobe

Now that you have the steps to get started on your very own capsule wardrobe, here are some additional tips to help you complete your goal.

Be intentional with your style

One of my favorite things about a minimalist closet is that it allows you to be intentional with your style. Don’t feel like you have to have a certain aesthetic just because you are going for a minimalist wardrobe. Instead, feel free to embrace your style and find joy in your unique individuality.

Consider the 70/30 rule

When deciding what pieces to keep in order to mix and match the most outfits, consider the 70/30 rule. This states that your wardrobe should consist of 70% basics – the neutral pieces you wear everyday that go with everything, and 30% accessory or fun pieces. This will help you put together different outfits the easiest.

Building your own minimalist wardrobe

The most important thing to remember when starting your minimalist wardrobe is this: it isn’t about just owning less clothes. Rather, the goal is to curate a collection of clothing that fits your individual needs and lifestyle while boosting your confidence and saving you time and money. Whether you decide to try a capsule wardrobe, challenge yourself to Project 333, or dive into the simplicity of a 10-item wardrobe, enjoy making it your own.

Focus on your needs. Be intentional with your style. And stick to a budge. By doing these things, you’ll create a closet that truly works for you. So start today! Simplify your closet and unlock the many benefits it will bring.

Feeling stuck? 20 ways to Add joy to your life

Filed Under: Christian living // February 11, 2025

It can be easy to fall into the slump of life. But we were created to find joy, purpose, and meaning everyday. If you find yourself wandering aimlessly through your days, here is a list of ways to help you add joy to your life.

Here are the 20 best ways to add joy to your life today.

What is joy?

Have you ever met someone who seemed truly happy and content, no matter what life threw at them? From the outside, it may have looked like they had the perfect life – that everything they had came easy to them. But when you got to know them more, you found that their life was riddled with trials and heartache. You wondered how in the world they could have such a positive outlook when their life was so difficult.

Most likely, that person had a profound sense of joy found in Christ.

Joy, unlike happiness, is not a fleeting emotion but is a deep and lasting choice rooted in Christ. Galatians 5:22 tells us that joy is one of the fruits of the spirit. This means that it is not dependent on life circumstances but on the promise of God. This is how we are able to choose joy even when life makes it difficult.

How choosing joy transformed my life

Happiness is an emotion that occurs when something good happens – when you get a new dress or a babysitter so you can finally go on a date. Joy is a choice that you make despite how your life seems to be going at the moment.

I am a stay-at-home mom, and although I truly love the gift of watching my children grow up, some days it gets monotonous. A few months ago, during a cold winter storm, my toddler and I were stuck inside for 2 weeks because of sub-freezing weather. We both started to get cabin fever. It was not a fun situation.

I started to notice that I was becoming discontent with life. Not only that, but I was starting to see the blessing of my toddler (and pregnancy) as a burden. I became ungrateful for the things I had prayed for a few short years ago.

Thankfully, through my daily Bible study, God reminded me that joy in Him is a choice and it was up to me to cultivate it. I sat down and came up with a list of ways to add joy back into my life and implemented it immediately.

20 Ways you can add joy to your life

Here are 20 ways you can add joy back to your life no matter what season you find yourself in:

Spend time with God
Practice gratitude
Make a list of the things that bring you joy
Embrace tiny moments
Live in the now
Journal
Serve others
Find a community
Learn to let go
Spend time in nature
Get lost in a book
Prioritize a healthy diet
Make time for movement
Put down the phone
Find time for self-care
Be conscious of your time
Create purposeful daily rituals
Slow down
Invest in relationships
Rest in God’s Sovereignty

Add joy by Spending time with God

As a fruit of the Spirit, true joy cannot be cultivated apart from God. John 15:11 tells us that our joy may be complete when it is found in God. Because of this simple truth, the quickest way to add joy to your life is to spend time with God.

Getting away from the distractions of this world is crucial to cultivating joy in Christ. Dedicate a portion of your day to quiet time. This is a time for Bible reading, prayer, and worship. It is okay if you don’t have hours and hours each day to read the Bible. Just make spending time with God a priority and you’ll be surprised at how much time you find you have.

Some easy ways to make quiet time a habit include: creating a morning routine, listening to scripture, Bible journaling, and guided devotionals.

If you are able to wake up 15 minutes earlier, you can carve out some time for reading the Bible while you sip on your coffee. You can listen to scripture on your way to work or dropping the kids off at school. Bible journaling can occur anytime you want a creative outlet while studying God’s word. And devotionals are a great way to dig deeper in scripture with topics or timeframes that work for you.

Related post: 31 Of The Best Scriptures On Joy

No matter how you choose to spend more time with God, you will find that a deepened relationship with your creator lends to increased joy in your life.

Add joy by Practicing gratitude

One reason we lack joy is because we focus on all of the problems in our life instead of the blessings God has given us. One way to combat this is by practicing gratitude. Gratitude shifts our focus from the challenges we face or the things we lack to what God has done and provided for us.

In scripture, we are commanded to rejoice always, pray continuously, and give thanks in all circumstances (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18). All circumstances means that our gratitude is not dependent on life going the way we planned. Instead, gratitude is a choice that we make. It is the active choice of being content and thankful for the season of life God has placed us in.

Some practical ways to practice gratitude include: gratitude journaling, prayer, and daily thankfulness lists. Lately, I’ve been incorporating writing down one or two things each morning that I am grateful for. This takes less than 5 minutes, but it helps set the tone of thankfulness for my day.

Make a list of the things that bring you joy

Similar to practicing gratitude, making a list of things that bring you joy can help shift your focus onto what is good. Philippians 4:8 tells us to focus on whatever is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent, and praiseworthy. By making a list of all the things that bring you joy, you will be focusing on these things. But even more so, you can use this list when you need to add joy to your life.

This list can be very practical when you include 10-20 things that you enjoy, then refer back to that list regularly. You can use it to choose a couple things to plan into your week. Or simply reference it when you are feeling down. Simply choose one or two items off the list and do them.

Add joy by Embracing tiny moments

There are so many tiny moments everyday that we miss and don’t celebrate because they seem too small to notice. These tiny moments can add up to bring us true happiness when we take a second to enjoy them. If you find yourself feeling stuck with the mundane in life, take time to embrace these moments.

Some of these moments can include: listening to your child’s laughter, smelling flowers in nature, smiling at a stranger, and enjoying a sunrise on your way to work. You can also create intentional joy-filled moments through small traditions and rituals that you take delight in doing.

enjoy life — Feeling stuck? Try one of these ways today!

Add joy by Living in the now

Living in the now is similar to embracing tiny moments, but it takes it a step further. To living in the now is to learn to find enjoyment in the ordinary: a quiet cup of coffee, the sound of your children playing, a warm hug, or the smell of fresh rain.

Not every day will be the most exciting day of you life. In fact, most days will be quite ordinary. But just because there is a rhythm to your life doesn’t mean that your life is boring. Rather, embrace that rhythm by marking God’s faithfulness in every moment.

Practical ways to live in the now include finding enjoyment in the ordinary everyday things that you do, such as making dinner or changing a diaper. This is possible when you remember that these things stem from the blessings God has given you.

Add joy by Journaling

Journaling is a great way to remember old joys and find new ones. Psalm 143:5 says “I remember the days of long ago. I meditate on all your works and consider what your hands have done.” Journaling is one way to record the faithfulness of God and remember all the ways He has blessed you. You can then go back and read the words you have written anytime you need a reminder of what He has done.

Add joy by Serving others

One thing that steals joy is constantly being focused inward on yourself. Instead, shift your focus outward by serving others. We all know that “it is more blessed to give than to receive” (Acts 20:35), yet we often don’t live that out.

However, when we stop to think of the life of Jesus – the very one we are called to imitate – we see how he served others selflessly. He healed the sick and fed the poor. He also spent time with lepers and the outcasts of society.

Some small, simple ways you can serve others include practicing hospitality by checking in on a friend, helping a neighbor, and having people over. You can also offer to cook someone a meal when they are sick, lost a loved one, or postpartum. And often, just spending time with others is an act of service in a world where most people feel forgotten.

Add joy by Finding a community

There are so many benefits to finding a good community. One is that community encourages us and spurs us on to do great things (Hebrews 10:24-25). Another benefit of community is that you have someone to pick you up when you fall or catch you when you falter (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10). If you are looking to add more joy to your life, consider the community you have around you. Are you interacting with like-minded people daily or weekly? Or do you let a month go by without a meaningful conversation?

There are many ways to cultivate community, and they become even more crucial in seasons of transition or isolation. Some of these ways include: getting involved in church or Bible study, finding a group of people in a similar season, and inviting friends or acquaintances over for meals.

Add joy by Learning to let go

Sometime the thing that steals your enjoyment of life is not found in the present, but rather in the past. If you are holding on to something that is making you bitter or resentful, it’s time to let it go. Colossians 3:8 tells us to let go of anger, rage, malice, slander and filthy language. If you are experiencing any of these things in your life – even if the reason may be justified – it is hurting you.

Some practical ways to let go of these emotions include reading your Bible to understand God’s heart, prayer, journaling, talking to the offending person, and biblical counseling. Sometimes, when you get down to the heart of the issue, you will find that you weren’t holding on to anything important anyway.

Add joy by Spending time in nature

Nature is one of God’s many gifts to us, yet many of us go days, weeks, and even months without enjoying it. There have been so many studies that show a correlation between getting outside and breathing in fresh air to overall sense of contentment and fulfillment in life. As Christians, we have the added benefit of finding joy in nature as a reflection of God’s goodness. Psalm 19:1 says “the heavens declare the glory of God, the sky proclaims the work of His hands.” Getting outside in nature can refresh your soul while at the same time foster awe of the creator. This leads to more joy-filled moments in your life.

Some simple ways to incorporate more outdoor time include: nature walks, gardening, picknics, and watching the sunrise or sunset. You don’t have to go on an all-day hike to enjoy the nature (although I would encourage it every once-in-a-while). Simply make it a goal to get outside in the fresh air at least 15 minutes a day.

Get lost in a book

Do you remember the awe and amazement you had as a child when you got lost in a good book? Maybe you were able to finish it in a day or two and felt that sense of joy and pride – not only in the story, but your ability to read so much.

For some reason, as we become adults, we lose the ability to allow ourselves to get lost in a book. Yes, we may have 1000 things pulling at our attention. And we may know that staying up all night reading will make the next day more difficult. But I encourage you to let all of the sensible excuses fly out the window. Pick up a book that you know you’ll enjoy, and get lost in it. Allow yourself to find the same joyous pride you did as a child when you finish it it a day.

Prioritize a healthy diet

Eating junk can make you feel like… well, junk. Prioritizing a healthy and well rounded diet can help add joy to your life as you fill your body with the nutrients it desires. There has been a lot of research that links vitamins and mineral deficiencies with mood disorders, so if you are feeling blue most of the time, it might be worth looking into.

adding joy — Which one of these speaks to you?

Make time for movement

Movement is another thing that most people know we need to prioritize, yet it is easier said than done. If you are not already regularly exercising, don’t be afraid to start small. You don’t have to go out and buy the best gym membership you can find. Rather, find some quick and easy workouts on youtube that you will love doing. Or add movement into the time that you’re planning on getting out in nature. Remember, a little movement is better than none when it comes to finding more joy in your everyday life.

Put down the phone

Did you know that the average American spends over 4 hours on their phone everyday? That’s crazy! How much time do you spend browsing streaming services and scrolling through social medias? Does this time leave you feeling more refreshed, or more tired? Take a hard look at your phone usage and contemplate how much of it is adding value to your life. Be honest with yourself. Then see if you need to limit certain apps or the amount of time you spend on your phone. You may find that you have more time to do the things you love when you put your phone down for a bit.

Find time for Self-care

Sometimes (especially if you are a mother), you sacrifice the things you love so that you can get everything checked off your list. Maybe you love taking baths, but you don’t allow yourself to because you have too many dishes to wash and floors to scrub. Maybe your hobby is painting, but you always seem to find an excuse for why you don’t have time.

No matter what it is that brings you joy, make time for it!

This week I woke up early to go to Starbucks and read my Bible. In order to make sure I would be able to do something that brought me joy, I had to wake up 1.5 hours earlier than normal. But it was worth it! It has filled me with so much joy throughout the week because it is something that I enjoy doing. The silly thing is: that was the first time I had done that in the 2 years since my son was born. I don’t know why it took me so long. My husband was always telling me I could, but I finally decided that I needed to make time for things that brought me joy.

Be conscious of your time

If you are constantly feeling stuck or overwhelmed in your day, perhaps it would be helpful to do a time audit. Simply print out a daily calendar for the week with time stamps every 30 minutes. On one side, make a note of what you would like to be doing during certain times. So write down you work schedule, meal times, appointments. Jot down anything that you think you will do during the week. Then, as the days of the week progress, fill out in what you are actually spending your time on.

Although this may seem tedious, doing so will help you see where your time is going and will give you indicators of things that steal your joy verses the things that you enjoy doing and need to incorporate more into your day.

Create purposeful daily rituals

If you already have a pretty good idea of where your time is going, you may be able to add in some daily rituals to help you incorporate more joy into your life. These rituals can help you find enjoyment throughout the day because they are specifically curated toward your personality and desires.

Some practical ways to create purposeful daily rituals include: enjoying a cup of coffee while watching the sunrise, having an afternoon tea break, taking an evening walk, or talking with your spouse before bed.

Slow down

Joy is often found in less, not more. Less clutter, less business, and less mental overwhelm. If you find your life whirling by you, take time to slow down. This looks different for everyone, but at it’s core, slowing down means living a more intentional life. It means saying “no” to the things that don’t matter, and “yes” to the things that do.

Part of slowing down is decluttering and finding the freedom that comes from owning less. But decluttering is not just a physical solution, it can also occur mentally and spiritually as well. In fact, minimalism and slow living align with a Christ-centered life as your focus shifts from needing to have more to resting content in Christ.

Jesus tells His followers to not store up treasures on earth where they will ultimately be destroyed, but to instead store up eternal treasures in heaven (Matthew 6:19-21). Where is your treasure found?

Some practical tips for slowing down include” simplifying your routines, choosing rest over busyness, and letting go of comparison.

Invest in relationships

Prioritizing deep, Christ-centered relationships can lead to renewed joy in so many ways. Not only were we meant to be in community with others, but we are called to have intimate and lasting relationships with others. These relationships include with our spouse, our parents, our siblings, and our friends. They lead to laughter, good memories together, joy-filled moments, a shoulder to cry on, and someone to reach out to in times of need. James 5:16 tells us to confess our sins to one another and pray for each other so that we may be healed. Prioritizing these deep, Christ-centered relationships gives you someone you can count on for anything.

The most practical way to invest in relationships is to simply spend intentional time together. Whether it be through date nights with your spouse, weekly phone calls with your family, or brunch with your friends. Find ways to be intentional with those you value.

rest in God’s sovereignty

Worry and the need to be in control can steal joy; trusting in God restores it. In Matthew 6:25-34, Jesus tells us to not be anxious about anything. He gives the example of the birds of the air being fed without storing away in barns and the flowers of the field being clothed without toil or spinning. If that is how God feeds and clothes the birds and flowers, won’t He do so much more for you? Surrender your anxieties to God and let His peace wash over you.

Ways to cultivate trust in God’s plan include: scripture meditation, speaking God’s truth over your fears, and keeping a prayer journal.

Conclusion

If you are looking for ways to add more joy to your life, remember: true joy is found in Christ alone. It is not found in life circumstances. Because of that simple truth, you can experience joy no matter what life throws at you.

Pick one or two areas to focus on this week and see how they can add joy to your life.

13 of the Best Minimalist Books to Help You Begin Your Journey

Filed Under: Minimalism // February 4, 2025

This post is all about the best minimalist books to help you begin your journey toward a simpler life.

Minimalism is a trending topic as more and more people become aware of the over consumption culture rampant today. If you are one of the many who find yourself discontent with your current consumerism and wishing to add more intentionality back into your life, this list of the best minimalist books will help give you a place to start.

Whether you need help changing your mindset towards clutter and consumerism, a practical guide for decluttering, or help living waste-free, there is a book for you.

Minimalist books to Change your mindset

1. The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning: How to Free Yourself And Your Family From a Lifetime of Clutter

In The Gentle Art Of Swedish Death Cleaning, Margareta Magnusson explains that the Swedish undertake a “death cleaning” of sorts, often all throughout their lives. This concept shows that life is more important than things, and minimalism can help put both in order. Through her humor and wit, Magnusson helps readers navigate which things can easily be let go of and which possessions may need more contemplation. This is the perfect book for anyone who is looking for inspiration to let go so their children don’t have to, while enjoying every moment of the life they have left.

Perfect for: Anyone seeking inspiration to declutter while embracing the beauty of life

2. Hello, Habits: A minimalists Guide To A Better Life

If you are tired of the relentless cycle of buying more things and then decluttering them a few months later, consider making minimalism a habit with Fumio Sasaki. In his book, Sasaki explores the habits easily formed by everyone, such as waking up in the morning, exercise, a weekly phone call with loved ones, and the food you regularly eat. Expounding from this idea that life is made up of habits, Sasaki explains how anyone can acquire new habits and get rid of less desirable ones. This step-by-step guide to success is perfect for anyone looking to change their mindset about the habits that make up their lives.

Perfect for: Anyone who is tired of the consumerism and decluttering cycle

3. The Year of Less: How I Stopped Shopping, Gave Away My Belongings, and Discovered Life is Worth More Than Anything You Can Buy in a Store

Imagine a year of only buying consumable goods – groceries, a few toiletries, and gas for your car. How would this change impact your wallet? How would this change impact your environment? These are some of the questions that Cait Flanders found herself asking in her late 20’s. Being sick of the endless consumerism wheel and having nearly $30,000 in debt, she knew she needed to make a drastic change.

If you find yourself in a similar situation, have been thinking about doing a no-buy year, or just want a new perspective on consumerism, Flanders relatable memoir will be an inspiration to you. Not only was she able to live for a year without adding to the consumerism cycle, but she also discovered how to stop shopping when bored. She decluttered her apartment, getting rid of over 70% of her possessions, and she learned how to fix things when they broke.

Perfect for: Anyone who needs inspiration to quit shopping and be content with what they have

4. Christian Minimalism: Simple Steps for Abundant Living

Society likes to preach a gospel that life and purpose is centered around accumulation wealth and possessions here on earth. This should be the driving factor in your life because it promotes power and prestige. However, as Christians, we hear the message that Jesus spoke of selling everything your have to give to the poor so you can follow Him wholeheartedly.

If you find yourself struggling to reconcile your consumeristic habits and desires with the message Jesus taught, Christian Minimalism will help you navigate those intricacies. Becca Ehrlich takes you along with her as she explores how to live a purpose driven life in the grace of God. Although this is not a book that gives practical steps for decluttering your home, Ehrlich teaches how to simplify in other areas of your life by removing spiritual clutter.

Perfect for: Anyone who wants to align how they live with their Christian beliefs

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5. Decluttering At The Speed Of Life: Winning Your Never-ending Battle With Stuff

Known mainly for her energetic personality on her YouTube channel, Dana White brings you years of experience helping others declutter their homes. In her book, White explores different emotional challenges that may arise for anyone trying to declutter, and helps you work through them. This helps to not only complete your decluttering process, but also reach the minimalist level you desire quickly and efficiently. If you want to begin decluttering step-by-step, but get hung up by feelings of overwhelm anytime you try, this book is for you.

Perfect for: Anyone who struggles with decision making during the decluttering process

Minimalist books to help you declutter room by room

6. The More Of Less: Finding The Life You Want Under Everything You Own

Joshua Becker is considered one of the early pioneers of American minimalism, even staring in his own Netflix documentary “Minimalism: A Documentary About the Important Things.” Although he has written many helpful decluttering and minimalist books, The More Of Less stands out in my mind because of it’s emphasis on helping you see the joy of owning less, rather than more.

Becker points out that the American dream has become synonymous with owning as much as you can. He himself was on this hamster wheel of earning more money so he could buy more things until one day when he was cleaning out his garage. Feeling defeated at moving things around instead of playing ball with his son, he was taken aback when a neighbor commented that he didn’t have to own everything he did. That simple interaction was the start of his minimalist journey, and he now dedicates his life to helping others find freedom through the simplicity of minimalism.

Perfect for: Anyone who wants to embrace minimalism as a lifestyle, not a project

7. Goodbye, Things: The New Japanese Minimalism

Another classic of the minimalist books, Goodbye, Things is a practical step-by-step guide to help you declutter your whole home. As an extreme Minimalist, Fumio Sasaki lives in a tiny Tokyo apartment with only the bare minimum. (His closet consists of only three shirts, four pairs of pants, four socks). Although this lifestyle is not for everyone (or even most minimalists), Sasaki provides great insight to help your decluttering journey. If you are looking for minimalist inspiration to help your say goodbye to absolutely everything you don’t need, give Goodbye, Things a try today.

Perfect for: Anyone who needs help detaching from their possessions

8. Minimalista: Your Step-by-Step Guide to a Better Home, Wardrobe, and Life

If you are looking for a beautifully designed, coffee-table type book that also provides minimalist inspiration, look no further! Minimalista is the perfect book to demonstrate through pictures, the simplicity and aesthetic of minimalism. In her book, Gill promises to help you find and elevate your personal style by getting rid of excess belongings. She does this in a unique and visually appealing way, helping you find new motivation in each and every room.

Perfect for: Anyone who wants an aesthetic guide toward minimalism

Minimalist books for Parents

9. Clutter-free with Kids: Change your thinking. Discover new habits. Free your home

Anyone with kids knows that things pile up quickly. Whether it be sentimental nursery decor, too-small clothes, or an endless array of toys, there is always a mess to be organized. Joshua Becker was no stranger to the cluttered chaos that his kids brought into his home, but through his own minimalism journey, he discovered his kid’s delight over owning less stuff. Here, Becker outlines the 10 most common clutter problems for parents – and gives you the tools you need to solve them in your home.

Perfect for: Any parent struggling with the chaos kids bring

best minimalist books — These 13 minimalist books will be sure to inspire you.

Minimalist books to help you declutter by category

10. The Life Changing Magic of Tidying up

Do you know the things you own that spark joy when you hold them? These are the things that are worth keeping because they add value to your life and fill you with pleasure. So often, we hold on to things “just because,” even though we don’t enjoy having them around.

This is the entire concept of The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying up. Learning what sparks joy in your ilfe and letting everything else go. This revolutionary book will walk you through your entire home, category-by-category, helping you declutter and love the space you’re in.

Perfect for: Anyone who wants to embrace the joy of their belongings

Minimalist books to help you declutter your closet

11. Project 333: The Minimalist Fashion Challenge That Proves Less Really is So Much More

If you’ve looked into minimalism at all, chances are, you’ve come across the concept presented in Project 333. Here, Courtney Carver starts you on a minimalist journey in your wardrobe, giving you tangible rules to follow so you don’t become overwhelmed. These rules are simple: you have 3 months to live with only 33 articles of clothing in your wardrobe. If this sounds impossible to you, consider embracing this challenge and reading through Carver’s insightful book.

Perfect for: Anyone who wants to start their minimalist journey in their closet

Minimalist books to help free you from Technology

12. Digital Minimalism: Choosing a Focus Life in a Noisy World

Minimalism is not just about owning less stuff. It is also about simplifying every aspect of you life so that you can live intentionally with more purpose and value. If you are tired of letting your technology dictate how you live, Cal Newport shows how you can take back your life. Here, Newport explains that technology is neither good nor bad, and it can be used to support your goals and values if you have the right tools. Pulling inspiration from tech giants in Silicon Valley to Amish Farmers in Pensilvania, he shows that everyone can take steps to become free from the pull of modern tech.

Perfect for: Anyone who is tired of letting technology dictate their life

Minimalist books for taking it a step further

13. Zero Waste Home: The Ultimate Guide to Simplifying Your Life by Reducing Your Waste

How much garbage do you produce each year? If you find yourself disgusted at the thought of taking out yet another bag of garbage to the dump, consider gaining wisdom from Zero Waste Home. Author Bea Johnson shares how she, her husband, and her two sons are able to produce a mere one quart of annual garbage. This zero waste life has had more of an impact that she originally thought, including gaining more family time and reducing their spending by 40%. Here, Johnson share her best advise, tips, and secrets to help you live a more purposeful and less waste-filled life.

Perfect for: Anyone who wants to take minimalism to the next level by living consciously

Which minimalist books will you pick up first?

There are so many amazing options out there when it comes to giving you inspiration for decluttering.

As you begin your journey toward a simpler, more intentional life, the wisdom found in these minimalist books can guide and inspire you every step of the way. Whether you’re tackling a cluttered closet, reevaluating your habits, or seeking to align your faith and lifestyle, there’s a book here that can help you meet your needs.

Ready to take the first step? Start with one book that resonates most with your current goals. Then, share your progress in the comments below—I’d love to hear about your journey and favorite takeaways! Let’s embrace simplicity together!

This post was all about the best minimalist books to help you begin your journey toward a decluttered and waste-free home.

Slow down motherhood | How to embrace and enjoy every moment

Filed Under: Slow Living // January 21, 2025

This post is all about how to slow down in motherhood so you can embrace and enjoy every single moment of the day.

Slowing down is not about quitting life, but rather prioritizing the things that matter in each season so you can live a life full of meaning and value.

Slow down motherhood — These 13 tips will transform your life as you learn to slow down in motherhood and embrace joy in every moment.

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Lately I’ve been waking up to my toddler screaming for a snack. He points me to the pantry where his all-time favorite resides. Belvita. Those tiny breakfast cookies are the bane of my existence as a self-proclaimed “crunchy” and “slow” mom. I fight the internal dialogue of whether to give in or have him help make breakfast.

It wasn’t always this way. I used to have the energy to make a nutritious breakfast every morning, even having it ready before anyone else was up. But every season of life brings new challenges and gives us new ways to embrace joy.

I am coming out of the dreaded first trimester pregnancy exhaustion. During that season, I practiced slow living by giving myself grace and letting some areas of homemaking fall by the wayside. Now that I have more energy, I can slow down in motherhood by picking back up on some of the daily moments I enjoy – such as making a nutritious breakfast.

Keep reading to see how you can slow down in motherhood by incorporating some of my favorite tips below.

Slow down in motherhood – A tip for the overstimulated

Slow living isn’t about saying no to everything and becoming lazy. It is about intentionally thinking through what will serve you – and your family – the most in the current season you are in. To slow down in motherhood is to prioritize life-giving activities and find joy in everyday moments.

This may sound wonderful but impossible for you if you find yourself in an overstimulating season. When you have so many tiny feet running through your house, getting into everything, making messes, and begging for your undivided attention, it can be hard to know how to be intentional by slowing down.

My encouragement to you is that you are in a season right now. Meaning, this chaotic time will pass. In the meantime, pick one or two of these slow living tips below to implement this week.

By starting with just a single tip, you will keep yourself from becoming overwhelmed at the thought of a slow lifestyle. By committing to only one week, you will be able to see the benefits and make any adjustments to your new normal to assure it works for you.

Slow down by prioritizing connection over perfection

As mothers, we tend to get wrapped up in having everything be perfect. The kitchen counters need to be spotless. There can’t be anything on the floors. And laundry must never be backed up.

If you are anything like me, having this running to-do list in your head causes you to become short with the people you are trying to serve. I stop leaning into my husbands kisses when I’m thinking about the next three things to check off. And I forget to enjoy my son when he gets in the way of the dishes.

The perfectionism in my to-do list causes me to lose the connection I crave with my family.

Because I know this to be true in my life, I look for ways to put the list down and engage with my family when they seek me out. I put aside having the perfectly clean kitchen and I embrace the joy that my family creates. I know that there will always be time to get my list checked off. But I will not be able to get back the joyful moments that are created organically.

How can you prioritize connection over perfection in your own life this week?

Prioritize your needs

I used to think that self-care was a purely selfish concept. However, my eyes have been opened that you cannot give out of an empty cup. I always knew this was true, but I thought it simply meant reading the Bible and spending time with God. While this is still true and is the most valuable way to spend your time, prioritizing other simple things that bring you joy is so important, especially as a mama.

It is so easy to go about your day taking care of everyone else. But the truth is, if you don’t take time to slow down and give yourself a moment of rest and rejuvenation, you will end up pouring from an empty cup. You will find yourself being short with your kids, ignoring your husband, and resenting everyone around you for stealing your time.

Take a few minutes to write down 20 things that you enjoy doing – that add joy to your life and give you energy. If you are anything like me, after two years of motherhood, I had difficulty even thinking of five.

Establish a morning and evening ritual

One of the best ways to prioritize your needs is by creating a morning or evening ritual filled with one or two things you love. Maybe it’s watching the sun rise with a cup of coffee in the morning or a warm bath after the kids have gone to bed and the housework is done.

No matter what fills your cup, take time to make it a daily practice. You will see the benefits of taking care of yourself immediately.

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Don’t be afraid of rest

Some seasons require more rest than others. Not only is that okay, but it is normal and good! If you are finding yourself sluggish and tired most days, consider taking a nap when the kids nap or going to bed earlier. We all know that 7-8 hours of sleep is recommended each night, yet for some reason we think that doesn’t apply to us. Spend the week focusing on your sleep and see the difference it makes in your life.

Focus on your family’s values

Perhaps the most important aspect of slowing down in motherhood is knowing what truly matters to your family. Each family is unique, with its own priorities and values. Take some time to reflect on what is most important to you. Do you value quality time together, or outdoor adventures? Maybe you value creativity and learning or a peaceful home environment?

No matter what it is your family values, by having a clear picture in mind, you can slow down by letting go of the things that don’t align without guilt. For example, if your family prioritizes simplicity and connection, you might find yourself saying no to extra extracurricular activities or social commitments that leave everyone feeling rushed. Because of this simple step, you now have time for family dinners, evening walks, or playing games together.

You cannot live intentionally unless you know your purpose and have reflected on what matters to you. What are the things that your family values?

Learn how to say no {and when to say yes}

In order to slow down in motherhood, you need to say “no” to some things. While the specifics vary for each mother, it is universally true that everyone has at least one thing they can let go of. Perhaps you have too many play-dates or extracurriculars scheduled for your family and you lack time at home. Pick only the most important and fulfilling while letting the others go.

Maybe you need to say no to being at home all day in favor of getting out and interacting with more people. This is especially true for those who are naturally introverted. But everyone needs connection of some kind, and pushing yourself to find it may be the way you can slow down as a parent.

Take some time to reflect on your life and be intentional about how you want to spend your days. Does your current calendar reflect what you value?

Slow down in motherhood by including your children

Your beautiful, chaotic blessings desire to be with you. This is true even when it comes to doing the “chores” that you dread. Folding laundry? Your infant can sit in the pile, your toddler can fold washcloths, and your pre-schooler can hang up shirts. Doing the dishes? You’d be surprised that your 18-month old can hand you the clean silverware from the bottom rack (this is a definitive bonus if you’re pregnant and dread bending over). Do the floors need swept and mopped again? Don’t be afraid to hand a mop or broom to your youngster. You may find that they beg for it throughout the day.

No matter what the chore is that you find yourself putting off, your child would be delighted if you allowed the the opportunity to join you. This is a great time to get to know more about them and their tiny personalities as you spend quality time together.

Don’t be afraid of the task taking a little longer than if you did it by yourself. Part of the joy of slow motherhood is embracing every moment for what it is.

Get outside

One of my favorite books is “There’s no such thing as bad weather” because it helped me see the importance of getting outside regularly. There are endless benefits of fresh air for both you and your children. So it’s no wonder why getting outside is a halmark of slow living.

Try to get outside everyday to help your entire family’s mood and wellbeing. Spend time at the park, going for walks, and exploring new places.

Slow down in motherhood by celebrating small victories and events

Take time throughout your day to find joy in the small moments that life brings. Pause anytime you hear your kid’s laughter, see something beautiful, or smell something delicious. Enjoy the tiny moments that most people rush by. These small moments add up to a life of joy that can only be experienced when you decide to slow down and partake in them.

Celebrate the small victories that are found in your babies reaching their milestones. Don’t be afraid to get excited when they smile for the first time or say “mama” for the hundredth time. Delight in your kids when they present a bug they found or show you the super cool fort they built. Try to see life from their eyes with each day bringing so many new things to explore.

How can you slow down and celebrate small victories and events this week?

Create rhythms in your days and weeks

Adopting a flexible rhythm that leaves room for spontaneity is key to slow motherhood. Rhythms allow you to loosely plan your day to accomplish what needs to be done, while leaving room for mishaps, meltdowns, and adventures. Planning a rhythm is simple. Reflect on the flow of your normal days, paying attention to what you like and the things that work well. Simply plug those anchor points into your daily rhythm and allow for life to happen organically around them.

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Slow down in motherhood by Simplifying your home

A cluttered home tends to lead to a cluttered mind. Simplifying your space doesn’t mean getting rid of everything you own to reach a minimalistic aesthetic. Instead, it means only keeping the things that serve you or bring you joy when you see them.

Imagine looking around your living room and seeing a cozy, inviting space with only one or two of your child’s favorite toys and your softest blanket waiting for you on the couch. This picture creates a sense of peace and fulfilment, rather than entering your living room to find multiple toy sets strewn about, ten throw pillows to pick up, and a bunch of books and other nonsense of the coffee table. This picture is sure to give you a mini heart attack as you contemplate having to clean it all up again.

Start simplifying your home today so you can have less moments of panic and more peaceful memories with your loved ones.

Slow down in motherhood by finding joy in the everyday, mundane tasks

We all have those everyday tasks that we dread. Lately for me, it’s been doing the dishes. I mean, how is it possible for them to pile up SO quickly? One of the ways I choose to find joy in this task is by allowing myself to feel frustrated by the constant deluge of dirty dishes.

Feelings are not inherently bad, and they can be quite useful if you acknowledge them. However, the problem arises when we allow ourselves to stay in the negative emotion. This breeds turmoil and discontentment in our lives. So every time I feel myself getting frustrated with the dishes and starting to complain about doing them for the 100th time that day, I am reminded of Philippians 2:14. Here, Paul tells us to “do everything without grumbling or complaining”. Then, I very humorously say “grumble, grumble, grumble” under my breath in a grumpy tone. For some reason, this outward acknowledgement of frustration leads me to gratitude as I reflect on being thankful for having a family who enjoys meals together.

Life is made up of small, ordinary moments. When you embrace the beauty in these tasks, you’ll begin to see that they are the threads that weave a joyful, meaningful motherhood. How can you reframe your mindset to enjoy the everyday, mundane tasks that life throws at you?

Put the phone down

Social media is designed to keep you on its platform for as long as possible. Because of this, we get caught doom-scrolling and lose track of time. We pull out our phones subconsciously throughout the day and get lost in the reels. We become distracted from real life and long for the beautifully curated aesthetic that we see everyone else has.

In order to slow down, be more present in the moment, and enjoy motherhood more, find ways to put your phone down. You can set a daily time limit on social media, put your phone in a drawer so you aren’t tempted to scroll, or delete apps altogether. No matter how you decide to put your phone down, you’ll be surprised at all the free time you can come up with.

Consider reading “Stolen Focus: Why you can’t Pay Attention And How to Think Deeply Again” to learn more about algorithms and find practical ways to put the phone down.

Take time to reflect

You may have noticed that there is a pattern to all of the tips mentioned above. Slowing down in motherhood is about taking time to reflect on your life. Reflect on your values and what is important to you. It can be so easy to go through life discontent with the season you are in, but unless you take a moment to reflect on where you have been and where you want to be, you can’t change anything.

Reflect often

I have built in reflection daily, weekly, monthly, and yearly reflection times so that I can be as intentional as possible with my life. For daily reflection, I spend just a few moments in the morning considering what I want to accomplish and how I will get it done that day. In the evening, I reflect on the day and dwell on the joyful moments. I ponder what went well. I think about the things that I didn’t enjoy and ask myself how I can change it in the future.

Every week I sit down for thirty minutes to reflect on the past week. I ensure that the things I spent time on align with my values, and I make a plan for the upcoming week. I do the same thing each month when I schedule different events and prioritize the things that are important to me. Each year I take a few days to reflect on the past year. I come up with new motivation to stick to my values and implement changes in the upcoming year based on them.

Take time this week to reflect on each and every day. Ask yourself if your days reflect your values or if there are changes you can make throughout your day. At the end of the week, reflect on your time and see if you feel more fulfilled after living intentionally.

Slow motherhood is a journey

Slowing down in motherhood is not about achieving perfection or adding more to your already full plate. Instead, it’s about intentionally choosing what matters most to you and your family in each season of life. It’s a process of embracing the present, celebrating the small joys, and learning to let go of the unnecessary.

Remember, you don’t have to implement every tip at once. Start small—whether it’s creating a simple rhythm for your day, spending a few intentional moments connecting with your family, or prioritizing rest when you need it.

Motherhood is full of fleeting moments that often pass by too quickly. By slowing down, you can savor the beauty, find joy in the mundane, and cultivate a life filled with meaning and purpose.

What is one step you’ll take this week to slow down and enjoy motherhood? I’d love to hear from you in the comments below.

9 Ways to incorporate slow living principles into your life

Filed Under: Slow Living // December 31, 2024

This post is about how you can incorporate slow-living principles into your day to live a more meaningful and purposeful life.

Slow living is all about living intentionally – deciding who and what you want to spend your time on instead of letting others decide for you. Often, we get so wrapped up in the busyness of life that we forget to take a step back and reflect on what it is we truly want. We come to the end of a long day, week, month, or even year, feeling discouraged and discontent. But unable to pinpoint why.

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If you are tired of being pushed around by the chaotic world around you, then these slow-living principles will help guide you to a more intentional life.

Incorporate Slow Living principles by Prioritizing people who matter

Imagine lying on your deathbed (depressing, I know). What do you wish you had done more of? For most people, the answer isn’t building up their career more, buying more things, or even going on more vacations. Instead, almost everyone says they wish they had spent more time with family and close friends. They wish they had prioritized the people who matter.

Instead of waiting until the end of your life to realize that people matter, how would your life look different if you started making people a priority today? Take a look at your life and how you spend your time. How many hours do you spend scrolling on social media, wishing you could be the mom who does those fun crafts, be the wife who plans those fun dates, or be the daughter who has weekly brunches with her mom? Although social media tends to give us a false impression of reality, it can also encourage us to take steps to being that very person. This week, see how you can prioritize people who matter to you by spending real, quality time with them.

Sit and watch your kids play for 10 minutes

One of the easiest (and hardest, if I’m being honest) ways to prioritize people is to sit with your kids. Turn off all distractions and enjoy joining in with them as they play. Do not take over their creative imagination, but immerse yourself in their world. See how long you can last before you move on to your next task.

Plan a weekly at-home coffee date with your husband

In a busy and expensive world, planning elaborate dates isn’t always possible. Whether your limitation be money, time, or both, there are plenty of ways to practice the principles of slow living by taking time to sit down with your spouse over a cup of home-brewed coffee. You can try waking up 20 minutes earlier to chat before you head off to work. Or make time on the weekend to reflect on each other’s weeks. As you practice making people a priority, you’ll be surprised at the different ideas that pop up.

Incorporate slow living principles by Building a community

Prioritizing individual relationships with people who matter is extremely important. But it isn’t everything. To truly slow down and experience the joy that people can bring, you need to immerse yourself in community.

This may sound daunting to some. I get it – I’m an introvert who was always the “shy kid” growing up. You couldn’t force me to go to an event with more than two people, and I could have entire conversations by just answering: “yup, nope,” and “I don’t know.”

However, since implementing different slow-living principles and practices into my life, I have realized the value of community. Now, one of my favorite parts of the week is inviting as many people as possible to our Sunday “Chicken and Waffles.” Not only is this a great and meaningful time for my husband and I, but we also have found that our friends request it if we happen to miss a week.

Start small

Building a community doesn’t have to be a big production. In fact, that would defeat the purpose of slowing down. Instead of trying to plan something completely new for you, see if there is a regular rhythm in your life that you can add community to. My husband and I had originally started doing chicken and waffles as an easy after-church meal. Once we discussed it with a few friends, we realized that they would love to join in! Because it was something that we already did, it made sense to expand it a bit so we could facilitate a growing community.

How to slow down — What do you prioritize?

Incorporate slow living principles by Taking time for gratitude

We live in a fast-paced, consumeristic world. Brands are always trying to sell you the next best thing, and influencers are more than happy to promote it. Instagram is full of curated lives that are often unrealistic. Facebook has post after post of discontented individuals looking for a safe place to rant.

In this chaotic world, take time to practice gratitude. Instead of longing for more, focus on being thankful for what you already have. Keeping a gratitude journal is a great way to intentionally work this slow living principle into your daily life.

Don’t wait for special occasions

How many items do you have that you wait to break out until the “right” occasion? Do you have special dishes that can only be used a couple of times a year? Or maybe you have some dresses that feel too fancy for everyday use. Instead of pushing your best to the back of a cupboard or closet, bring it out and use it daily. Often, when we wait, the right time never comes. So enjoy the things that you’ve told yourself are just for special occasions. Don’t hesitate. Realize that everyday is worthy of a little more joy.

Incorporate slow living principles by doing a No buy month

If you struggle with figuring out how to slow down, especially when it comes to finances, consider a no-buy month. This is about as simple as it sounds! Take a look at your monthly income, pay all of your bills and allocate funds to necessities such as food. Then, see how long you can last without buying anything that isn’t a necessity. You may be surprised at how much you were consuming just for the sake of consumerism.

Incorporate slow living principles by taking a look at your schedule

If you are feeling overwhelmed in your daily life, take a look at your schedule. Chances are, there are things on there that aren’t adding value to you. When planning out your schedule, it may be helpful to first make a list of the things that are important to your that you want to prioritize, as well as the things that you must do. Allocate how much time per week you will spend doing those things, and then try to fill in your schedule around that. This is an especially helpful method if you find yourself burnt-out by the commitments you have made. Stopping to take intentional inventory of where your time is spent is one of the most beneficial slow living principles.

Prioritize the things that matter

Often, we let our calendar tell us what we must spend time on, rather than us telling our calendar. If that is where you find yourself, try to cancel or move anything on your schedule over the next couple of weeks that is not necessary and brings no benefit or enjoyment to your life.

Once you have lived through a week with your unhurried lifestyle, ask yourself what else you can change on your calendar to make slow living more possible.

Incorporate slow living principles by Creating rhythms in your life

If you spend any amount of time researching slow living practices, you will find that many people choose to have intentional rhythms built into their lives. This can take on many forms, but usually consists of daily, weekly, and monthly rhythms.

Daily Rhythms

Often, people choose to live intentionally but implement some form of a daily rhythm in their lives. This can help you center your day by allowing you to slow down and enjoy the moment. These rituals look different for everyone, but here are a few examples to help you get started with your own rhythms.

A morning ritual

Think of what a peaceful morning would look like for you. Perhaps it is waking up 30 minutes earlier so you can read a book and enjoy a cup of coffee before moving on with your day. Maybe it is incorporating some house chores before the kids wake up so you have more time to focus on them. Or, possibly, you would enjoy adding exercise to your day. No matter what activity you find peace-giving, this principle can aid you in your slow living journey.

Midday break

If you notice that you tend to get tired or overwhelmed in the middle of the day, that could be a sign that you need to implement a midday break. Setting a 30-minute timer to do a life-giving activity may be the key to reinvigorating your whole day.

Evening ritual

The end of the evening tends to be a time-waster that does not add value. Most people find themselves vegging out in front of the T.V., only to find themselves going to bed more tired than when they sat down. To build an evening ritual, start by giving yourself a consistent bedtime. Then, unwind from the day an hour before you’ve decided to be in bed. Turn off all screens and read a book, do a puzzle, pick up a hobby, or write in a journal. Taking this time before bed will help you to wake up each morning feeling more refreshed.

Weekly rhythms

There are many weekly rhythms you can start to help you slow down. Consider doing a Sunday reset where you reflect on your past week and plan out your upcoming one. You can also set aside a few hours to ensure you get to do something you love each week.

Monthly Rhythms

If you find joy in opening up a new planner each year and starting the new year with fresh goals, consider implementing a monthly rhythm. Use this time to reflect on the last month and set attainable goals for the upcoming season. Plan any activities that add value to your life and schedule those in. Make time for the people you love.

Incorporate slow living principles by Doing a digital detox

One of the best slow-living principles everyone should embrace is a digital detox. This can look different for each individual, and may even look different for you depending on the season of life you are in. But no matter the form your digital detox takes, you will experience the many benefits of slow-living.

If you are feeling overwhelmed in your daily life, consider removing all social media apps from your phone or setting a time limit for them. The average American spends around three hours a day staring at their screen, mindlessly scrolling through other people’s curated lives. Instead of living vicariously through everyone else, give yourself the time to do the things you dream of by removing the temptation of scrolling.

Another way to practice a digital detox is to limit passive forms of entertainment. This includes Netflix and other streaming services such as YouTube. Take a moment to consider how many hours each week you spend watching various shows. If you were given that amount of time added on to your week, what would you choose to do with it?

Over the next week, make time for the people and hobbies that matter to you by cutting down on your screen time.

Don’t be afraid of leisure time

if you aren’t using your phone to endlessly scroll and fill time, you’ll notice that you are bored and have a lot of downtime. Don’t be afraid of this leisure time. Rather, embrace it. Take time to discover new hobbies or remember old ones. Allow yourself to do those “useless” activities that you enjoy and add value to your life.

Incorporate slow living principles by Learning how to tidy

If you are tired of constantly cleaning your home without it ever feeling clean, learn how to tidy. Cleaning involves sweeping, wiping down counters, and doing the dishes. While this is important for making your home feel livable, tidying is the key to having it feel homey. Tidying means finding a designated place for everything in your home and decluttering anything that does not add value to your day. It also involves keeping floors and surfaces clear of clutter to help you achieve a clean feel – even if you haven’t cleaned. Take time each day to spend a few minutes tidying and decluttering. You will be amazed at the difference it makes in your home.

Not everyday needs to be slow

The person who live a slow, intentional life knows that there are seasons for everything. This means that not every moment of every day will be “slow”. In fact, there may be some months where you need to prioritize picking up the pace, abandoning some of your rhythms, and getting things done. But when that season is over, don’t be afraid to jump right back into slow living practices in the way that serves you best.

What slow-living principles will you implement in your life this week to live more intentionally?

How Living with less can transform your life

Filed Under: Minimalism // December 24, 2024

This post is all about how living with less can transform your life and help you experience more joy and freedom.

Most people live in a state of wanting more. Chasing more. Being more. Having more. And needing more. This endless cycle leads to dissatisfaction, even when life seems picture-perfect on the outside

We are told that the more you have, the more successful you are, and vice versa. But that isn’t always true.

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When you give yourself permission to slow down and embrace living with less, you’ll find your life transformed in more ways than one. Here are some ways that living with less can help you enjoy life more.

From complaining to contentment: jumping off the rat-race

Have you ever heard the saying, “The more you have, the more you have to have.”? This is becoming more true as I look around at today’s culture. I see countless ads for organizational tools to help others manage their clutter. There are hundreds of different options for packing away your out-of-season clothes or ways to contain your shoe collection.

With just a few clicks, you can have anything shipped to your door in two days.

Although it feels great to have the dopamine boost when ordering and unpacking everything, soon that feeling wears off into discontentment as you search for the next thing to make you happy.

But it doesn’t have to be this way. Instead of having fleeting moments of joy with long spans of discontentment in between, you can jump off the rat race of needing to purchase the latest fad.

Living with less can help transform your life as you realize what matters. Then you can let go with confidence.

There is more joy to living with less

The more you have, the more you’ll want. For some reason, getting the job promotion, bigger house, or newer car doesn’t seem to satisfy us for long. Pretty soon, we start working toward the next thing that we just have to have.

Living with less tends to have the opposite effect on us. When we choose to live with less, we are intentionally adding things of value to our lives and rejecting anything that does not align with our goals and priorities. Because of this, living with less means finding joy and contentment with what you have and the season of life you are in, even as you work towards your goal.

Living with less allows you to figure out your priorities

So often, we get caught up in the Instagram aesthetic of what we think the perfect life looks like. And we lose sight of our own priorities and desires. When you intentionally live with less, saying no to the fads that pop up, you begin to realize your own personal style. You realize the things in life that really matter to you, and the things that you can let go.

Because I choose to live with less, I am very intentional about the things that I bring into my home. They have to align with my priorities in life. For instance, the last thing I purchased was a planner. Before I even looked into planners, I knew that I would need something to help me to stay on track in multiple area of my life. In the upcoming year, I needed a way to organize work, life changes (having a baby and moving), a toddler, meal planning, and expense tracking. Once I found a planner that could do all that, I thought about it for over a month. I wanted to make sure that it would serve me how I needed and not just be an empty purchase.

Living with a mindset of less allowed me to be able to wait and find a planner I love, because I was not focused on being like everyone else. I had time to think of my own life and priorities and use that to serve my needs.

Living with less means you have more money for things you enjoy

Imagine having the money to go on the vacation you’ve always dreamed of, or being able to buy the expensive dress you’ve had your eye on for a year now. Living with less can free up the funds to allow you to enjoy the things you once thought out of reach because you no longer make impulse purchases. Instead of buying whatever you see, you ask yourself if the purchase will benefit you in the long run. Does it align with your goals and vision for your life? Or can you get away with leaving it at the store (or your online shopping cart)?

When you live with less you are less tempted to spend money on things that don’t matter. Instead, saving up for the things that you know will add value to your life.

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Stop spending time on things you don’t enjoy

No one enjoys cleaning, right? Well, maybe there are a few people who find satisfaction in tidying up a messy home or deep cleaning their fridge. But, for the most part, we get overwhelmed with the thought of having to do another load of laundry or running the dishwasher again. We get tired of the kids throwing their toys all over the living room within five minutes of us picking them up. It’s exhausting to do the same set of cleaning ritual without fail day after day, only to have the home looking like nothing has been kept up on in the last month.

Living with less means you’ll spend less time doing what you don’t enjoy. Hear me out. If you paired down your kids’ toys by 80% (studies show they only play with 20% anyway), how much time would you save cleaning up after them? And if you ruthlessly went through your home, decluttering anything that you don’t use and love, how much time would you free up from managing it?

Related post: 15 Steps To Begin Decluttering Your Home Today

There are so many ways that living with less can transform your life by freeing you up from the monotony that comes when you do things you don’t enjoy.

Make time for what matters

Once you’ve begun decluttering and living with less, you’ll find that you have more time. You will have less to maintain, and you won’t feel the pressure go out and buy the latest and greatest. You no longer have to research if something is a great deal just because everyone else has it. If it doesn’t fit with who you are and who you want to become, you can let it go with confidence.

You can now use this time to make time for what matters. Because you will have been forced to confront your ideals of what you should enjoy vs. what you actually enjoy while decluttering, you can now freely explore those areas of your life.

Living with less means you can Slow down and enjoy life

When you have a house full of things, you are stuck maintaining them. I know so many people who have basements full of stuff, and every few years, those basements flood. They experience stress with heavy rain, wondering if their possessions will be ruined. And they experience stressful weeks that follow the water damage, forcing them to sort through pile after pile, only to do it again the next time their basement finds some water.

Because I have chosen to live with less (and currently don’t own a house have a basement that succumbs to the elements), I get to enjoy the rainstorms and appreciate their beauty. My husband and I love sitting and watching storms roll in as we sip on hot coffee. We are able to do it carefree because we don’t have an excess of possessions that we have to store.

Living with less is not just about the physical

It is easy to think that living with less is just about the physical clutter in your home. But there are so many other areas of your life that can be transformed when you decide that less is more.

Living with less in a digital age

Do you ever feel overwhelmed by the amount of time you spend on your phone? I did, too. Which is why I decided to transform my life by decluttering my phone. Although I still have my iPhone (I would get lost without the maps), I have deleted every social media off of it. For the last six months, I have not gotten on any social media platform. Not only has this saved me countless hours to pour into thing I enjoy, but it has also helped me to find contentment without comparing my life to others.

I don’t have any games or other “time-wasters” on my phone because I enjoy the challenge of being present in every moment.

Another way I reign in the digital clutter is to unsubscribe from any email chain that isn’t actively benefiting me. I don’t receive updates from clothing stores trying to get me to buy into their sales, and I hardly ever get spam. Instead, I ensure that my inbox is tailored to what I enjoy receiving. I have a few Bible studies and a pregnancy update delivered each week, and that’s about it!

Living with less in your Calendar

Take a good look at your calendar and see if everything on it benefits you and is in line with your life goals. Perhaps it is time to cancel or change some of your appointments or time commitments that you thought were necessary.

Living with less in your finances

Another area that you could live with less is your finances. If you look at your bank statement, you will probably notice some subscriptions or impulse charges that don’t benefit you. Go ahead and cancel whatever you can. Analyze what caused you to make those impulse purchases so that you won’t be tempted next time.

How can your life be transformed by living with less?

Living with less is not about depriving yourself. It’s about liberating your preconceived notions and the need to follow other trends so that you can pursue what truly matters to you.

When you embrace this mindset, you’ll find yourself naturally slowing down, spending less time managing things, and more time doing what matters. Creating memories, pursuing passions, and enjoying the freedom to simply be.

How could your life be transformed by living with less today?

How to calm the Stress: Meditate on God’s Word

Filed Under: Bible Study, Slow Living // November 12, 2024

This post is all about how to meditate on God’s word.

When you choose to meditate on God (who He is and what He has done) through His word (which is living and active), you enable yourself to slow down and call the stress of life.

Are you tired of feeling overwhelmed and pulled along by life’s demands? Do you hate feeling swept up in the current of busyness and long to sit on the shore in peace?

What if I told you that the answer to calming your stress lay in adding one more thing to your overflowing plate? I know it seems daunting, but just hear me out for a moment. Meditating on God’s word will help you put your life into perspective and give you peace. It will calm your stress while giving you a sense of purpose and freedom.

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Calming the Stress

It is a common problem for Americans right now to feel stressed and overwhelmed in life. We live in a society that sees being busy as a good thing. To the point where the busier you are, the more successful you must be. Or the happier you are.

When, in reality, that isn’t the case.

As Christians, we know that the Word of God brings life and peace. But if you were honest with yourself, how often do you actually open the Word of God? And even more so than just opening and skimming the Bible, how often do you devote your precious time to studying it and understanding it better?

How many days go by in any given week that you don’t open the word of God?

It can be so easy to say that you want to calm the stress in your life, but are you willing to replace your busy, stress-filled life with the Word of God?

Meditate on God’s word to relieve stress

Meditation has many benefits, with reduced stress at the top of the list. Many claim that meditation can help with depression and anxiety as well as other mental health disorders. Meditation is also touted to improve attention span, memory, and concentration.

These are just the benefits stated when it comes to secular meditation. But what would happen if we purposely set aside time to fill our minds with God’s Word instead of trying to empty our minds of everything?

Is meditation Biblical?

Although our current culture likes to tout meditation as a new way to combat stress, the idea of meditation goes back much further than the 21st century. In order to understand whether meditation is Biblical, let’s take a break for a story.

If you know your Bible well, you will remember that after God rescued the Israelites from slavery in Egypt, He led them through the wilderness on their way to the Promised Land. During this time, they heard the words of God and established themselves as a free people. When they were on the outskirts of Canaan, getting ready to take the land, they allowed fear to rule in their hearts and essentially told God “no thanks.” As a result, they wandered the wilderness for 40 years. During this time, they continued to hear the words of God and began to trust Him with their whole hearts. As the time approached for them to take the Land of Canaan once again, this time they were ready to rely on God. It was while waiting to enter the land that God told them:

Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful. – Joshua 1:8

God commanded His people to meditate on His word day and night.

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What the Bible has to say about meditation

The first instance in the Bible where meditation was mentioned, it was commanded by God. But that is not the only place it is mentioned. In fact, the Hebrew word translated as meditate, הָגָה (hāḡâ) occurs multiple times, and means “to moan, muse, and mutter: to meditate”.

Some of the other verses that mention this word include:

Blessed is the one who does not walk in step with the wicked or stand in the way that sinners take or sit in the company of mockers, but whose delight is in the law of the Lord, and who meditates on his law day and night. {Psalm 1:1-2}

I remember the days of long ago; I meditate on all your works and consider what your hands have done. {Psalm 143:5}

There are also a few other instances where the Bible mentions meditation, such as:

Within your temple, O God, we meditate on your unfailing love. Like your name, O God, your praise reaches to the ends of the earth; your right hand is filled with righteousness. {Psalm 48:9-10}

Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. {Philippians 4:8}

What is the Word of God

With all this talk about the need to meditate on the Word of God, I should probably clear up what the Word of God is.

First, the Word of God is the Bible. It is divinely inspired by God Himself, even though it was written by 40 different authors over a period of over 2000 years. The Word of God is infallible (2 Peter 1:19). It is useful for teaching and training in righteousness (2 Timothy 3:16-17). And the Word of God is alive and active (Hebrews 4:12).

The Word of God is also Jesus. John 1:1 tells us, “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.” When we focus our minds on Jesus and His qualities, we are also meditating on the Word of God.

What are the requirements to meditate on God’s Word?

Meditating on God’s word is a relatively simple task and doesn’t require too much more than a willing heart. Here are the three requirements to meditate on God’s Word.

Meditation needs to be a priority
Meditation needs to begin with a plan
Meditation needs to have a purpose

Although this can seem like a lot, it’s actually quite simple. Let’s break it down.

You can grow closer to God by meditating on His word.

Make it a priority to meditate on God’s word

We are called to meditate on God’s word day and night (Psalm 1:1-2). Each of us are also instructed to talk about God’s word when we sit at home, walk along the road, lie down, and get up. We are to write His law on our doorframes and on our gates (Deuteronomy 11:18-21). We are to fix our thoughts on Jesus (Hebrews 3:1) and be transformed by the renewing of our minds (Romans 12:2).

Steps to Meditate on God’s word

The steps required to meditate on God’s word are quite simple, and they will vary depending on your preferences. The key thing to remember is that you must make this a priority with your heart and mind focused on God.

Shut out the World
Read the passage over and over
Listen to the passage
Write the passage down
Sing the passage
Pray the passage
Post the passage around you
Ask questions about the passage
Use different Bible study methods to understand the passage
Talk about the passage with others

Although this may seem like a lot, the more you meditate on God’s word, the more you will be able to get into a flow of what works best for you.

Here is a brief description of each step to help you meditate on God’s word.

Shut out the World

The first thing you will want to do to meditate on God’s word is to go to a quiet place where you can spend some time focusing. Don’t be afraid to get away from the distractions of the world. You may need to leave your phone behind or hide in a closet so that you can focus on God alone.

Read the Passage over and over

In order to meditate on God’s word, you want to read the small passage or verse over and over again, becoming familiar with its words and what it is saying. This will help you begin to memorize the verse so that you have it with you always.

Listen to the passage

Listening to the passage or verse is another great way to memorize it. It will also help your mind to think about and meditate on it when you hear it in a different voice.

Write the passage down

Once again, this step helps you focus on the verse. Writing it down forces you to pay attention to every word as it engrains the passage into your memory.

Sing the passage

If you feel like it, go ahead and make up a tune for the passage as a way to help you remember it and also draw attention to certain words.

Pray the passage

Prayer is so powerful, and there are multiple times throughout the Bible where you see different people praying back God’s word to Him. Go ahead and pray the passage, as well as pray about the passage. Open yourself up to let the Holy Spirit convict you about what the verse means.

Post the passage around you

The Israelites wrote down passages and tied them to their foreheads and placed them on their doors and gates. These were places where they would frequently see the passage and remember God’s word. Grab some sticky notes and place the passage you are meditating on around you so that you have it as a reminder throughout the day.

Ask questions about the passage

Don’t be afraid to ask questions about the Bible. When you are meditating on God’s word, ask questions about the verse. Do you know the people, places, or things mentioned? Are there words you are unsure of? Do you just want to know why something was said? Ask as many questions about the verse as you can think of.

Meditate on the word of God — Meditate on God’s word to give you a renewed mind.

Use different Bible study methods to help you understand the passage

There are so many great Bible study methods that can help you understand the verse you are reading. Consider using the Word Bible study method or even verse mapping while you are meditating on God’s word.

Talk about the passage with others

In order to really apply the passage to your life, you should be talking about it with others. This is a great way to not only solidify what you are meditating on, but also to encourage other people with what you are learning.

What is the difference between meditation and Bible study?

Although there are quite a few similarities between a good Bible study and meditating on God’s word, one of the key differences is that a Bible study tends to be more academic. Bible study usually takes place over a certain period of time and you then walk away from it and move on to your daily tasks. Meditating on God’s word is meant to be constant. The goal of meditation is to always be focused on God’s word and His character.

How often should you meditate on God’s word?

The answer to this question will vary based on each person. Some will be called to consistent, daily meditation. While others may only meditate once or twice per week. The important thing to remember when deciding how often to meditate is that focusing on God’s word must be a priority in your life.

Reflect on how you can meditate on God’s word today

If you are ready to make God first in your life, take a moment today to slow down and connect with His word. Set aside the busyness and stress, and let God’s truth bring you purpose and peace today. Start with a verse that is already in your mind and follow the steps above. Are you ready to experience the calm that comes when you focus on His promises?

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Slow Living Toddler: Easy Steps to a More Peaceful Life Together

Filed Under: Slow Living // September 10, 2024

This blog post is all about how to practice slow living with a toddler running around.

Slow living seems like a dream—until you have a toddler. Suddenly, the notion of sipping your morning coffee or quietly enjoying a book seems like a distant memory. You’re too busy chasing after a tiny whirlwind, keeping them alive while they try to sabotage your sanity. But what if I told you that slow living is possible, even with a toddler running around? If you’re searching for ways to slow down, engage with your little one, and find a bit of peace, this post is for you.

Slow living toddler — Here is how you can practice slow living with a toddler

Follow a slow-living routine

If you haven’t already, consider setting a routine for your tinny tot – and yourself. Although you don’t need to follow a strict schedule, having a routine can help both of you know what’s coming next and allow you to enjoy the moment.

A common routine to help moms keep their sanity includes waking up before their toddler to get a moment to compose themselves before chaos ensues. During this time, you can shower, read your Bible, plan the day, or make a special breakfast. The possibilities are endless and so is the reward.

Whatever your routine is, keep it consistent, but don’t feel like you can never deviate from it.

Don’t look at the clock

Part of the slow-living mindset is enjoying every moment, while being intentional about what you are doing. If you are constantly looking at the clock, chances are that you aren’t having fun.

Although the days can seem to drag on, try to find ways to enjoy every moment. Take time to remember why you are doing what you are doing. Evaluate if your current activity is working for you or if you need to change things up a little.

Cut out screen time for your slow living toddler

Did you know that both the CDC recommends that children under 2 have no screen time at all? There are many studies that show the negative effects on toddlers who are exposed to screen time, including attention and mood disorders.

Consider reducing the screen time for your child and instead allowing your child to build experiences with you. The following tips give you ideas on how to fill up the day in meaningful ways that provide engagement for your toddler and rest for you.

Get your toddler outside

The book “There’s No Such Thing As Bad Weather” by Linda McGurck addresses the lack of outside play time for many kids in a unique way. When a Swedish woman became a mom in rural Indiana, she was confronted with the reality that Americans do not spend time outdoors anymore. From this, the 1000 hours outside community was born. This challenge encourages parents to get their kids outside for 1000 hours a year, which translates to around 3 hours per day.

Although it can seem overwhelming to get your toddler outside, it can be a great replacement for screen time and can provide you with an opportunity to rest and relax as well.

If you have a yard, consider adding one or two toddler toys for them to enjoy. This toddler water table is a best seller on amazon and is sure to keep your little one entertained for hours. A balance bike is a must for young toddlers who are learning how to walk and run. The four-wheeled ones are a great option as they can be ridden on pavement, grass, and even gravel. A toddler playset would be the perfect gift for any active kid.

If you don’t have a yard, find a local park. You’d be surprised at how empty most of the are. Trails are also great for engaging your toddler’s imagination and creativity.

slow living with a toddler — Slow living with a toddler involves doing the things you love doing.

Parent’s hack

If you aren’t convinced about getting your toddler outside, consider what it will do for you! If you have a yard, get yourself a nice comfortable chair and put your feet up. You’ll be surprised at how long your toddler can entertain themselves while you get a moment to enjoy slow living. Take a minute to sip on your favorite drink and read a good book.

If you frequently take your child to the park (I take my toddler almost everyday) consider a camping chair that is easy to pack up and take with you. I love to download audiobooks and listen to them with one earbud in so I can keep an eye on what’s going on.

Allow your slow-living toddler to play independently

One of the greatest realizations in parenthood is that you don’t need to constantly entertain your child. Allow your child a chance for independent play. Whether it means giving them open-ended toys, or allowing them to pull out all of your dish towels from your kitchen drawer, independent play will increase their attention span and creativity.

Be intentional with your toddler’s toys

One of the rules in our house is no toys with batteries. While this may seem extreme, it prevents my toddler from being overstimulated and me from feeling frustrated by the loud noises and flashing lights. With this rule in place, I have seen my toddler – from the time he was 12 months – be able to play independently for significant periods of time. Some of the toys we love include Montessori inspired ones, although we have never purchased anything official. My toddler loves his block set, as well as his stacking cups and ring set. It is truly amazing all of the ways he finds to play with these toys.

I also keep his toys to a minimum and do a toy rotation so he only has access to a few at a time. This way he plays with the ones that are out for a much longer period of time than when they are all available to him.

Involve toddler in daily chores

One of the common struggles for parents is never finding time to clean the constant messes their little one makes. Instead of waiting for time without your toddler to clean, enlist them for their help. Every morning, my toddler and I like to do “cleaning hour” where we unload the dishwasher, make the beds, vacuum and mop, and do some laundry.

It is never too early to start teaching them the importance of looking after the home. If you aren’t sure how to have your toddler help you, just start your regular tasks while they are in the room with you. Chances are, they will show you exactly how they can help!

Sometimes my toddler likes to be carried while I vacuum, other times he likes to use our handheld vacuum to help, and still other times he pushes his bike in the same back and forth motion I am doing.

Although it may end up taking you a little longer to clean with the help of your toddler, you can practice this form of slow living by knowing that you are being intentional in building your little ones skills.

Give your slow-living toddler responsibility

One of the best ways to practice slow living with your toddler is by giving them more responsibility. Although there is definitely a limit to the responsibility a two-year-old can have, you can start setting them up now with age-appropriate activities. You may be surprised at what your toddler is capable of doing. Have them place their blankets or stuffed animals back in their beds in the morning. Or they can put their own dirty clothes in the hamper when you get them dressed for the day.

Listen to and watch your toddler, and you will be amazed at how much they love their small responsibilities.

Explore your world

Not everything in life revolves around your toddler. So don’t get so wrapped up in joining their world that you forget to have interests and hobbies of your own. What do you enjoy doing? How can you engage your toddler to meet you with your hobbies?

If you enjoy going to museums, bring your toddler along and explain the exhibits to them. If you enjoy painting, set your toddler up with their own mini canvas and washable paint. Maybe you need to get some work done on the computer while your toddler is present. Simply buy them a keyboard and have them tick-tack-tap right next to you.

Just like anyone, toddlers love to be involved in what you are doing. Use that to your advantage and continue doing the things you love.

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Encourage your slow-living toddler’s interests

Just as you should continue in your interests, don’t forget to encourage the interests of your toddler. If you notice they love coloring, bring that activity out more often. Maybe they love dancing to music, so you create a fun playlist and have a daily dance party. No matter what your toddler enjoys doing, if you take the time to slow down and notice them, you’ll be able to find ways to engage with them and what they love.

Enjoy every moment with your miniature friend

Being a parent is hard. There’s no doubt about it. But there are also things that make parenting easier. Learning to enjoy every moment is one of those things. No matter what you are doing, stop yourself and ask what is one thing you enjoy about it.

Do you enjoy seeing the pleasure on your toddlers face when you unbuckle them at the park? Do you enjoy tiny hands reaching up to hand you silverware as they “help” unload the dishwasher? Maybe you enjoy running through the house with blankets tied around you both like capes.

Although the days may seem long sometimes, the years truly are short and will pass by before you know it. Make the most of the time you have by being present. Enjoy the little moments as well as the big ones.

A final note

Slow-living with a toddler is no easy task. But neither is being a parent. If you are already taking care of a tiny human, you might as well enjoy every moment and make it the best years of your life. Psalm 127:3 tells us that children are a heritage and a blessing from God. Enjoy your blessing.

What are some small ways you can start practicing slow living with your toddler today? Remember, every moment with your little one is a gift—take the time to unwrap it slowly and savor the joy it brings.

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The Story behind Uncovered Joy: mission and values

Filed Under: Christian living // July 30, 2024

This post is all about the story behind Uncovered Joy – How it came to be and its mission and values.

Hello! My name is Tabitha and I am the founder of uncoveredjoy.com. Whether you are a new visitor or a returning reader, I am so glad you’re here. In this post, I wanted to introduce myself a bit more and share my heart and story behind Uncovered Joy. This post will give you a glimpse into my life, the purpose of Uncovered Joy, and what you can expect from the content.

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Introduction

At Uncovered Joy, my mission is to inspire and equip you to live a life of Joy because of the cross. To do this, I have created a Bible study that walks you through the Bible, chapter by chapter, asking life application questions throughout (more on this later). Throughout this Bible study, I have included ideas for Bible Journaling to help you engage with the text more fully. I also provide various resources for Christian living topics, such as How to Find Rest In God Alone.

Another aspect of Uncovered Joy is my desire to help you find freedom through slow, intentional living, and being content with what you have. Here, we explore topics related to minimalism and organization to free up time and space so that you can live a life of meaning.

I believe that a joyful life is found when your identity is fully rooted in Christ. Then you can let go of the things this world says are important and embrace the freedom and peace that comes from God.

It is because of this that Uncovered Joy was born. I created uncovered Joy out of a desire to share practical tips and inspirational content that can help you uncover the joy in your everyday life.

Mission: The story of Uncovered Joy

At Uncovered Joy, my mission is to inspire and equip you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received.

I aim to do this by providing you the resources you need engage with scriptures. I firmly believe that the word of God is living and active. Because of this, I walk you through the Bible, showing that it is not an archaic book that is hard to understand, but rather it is an exciting love story between God and You.

I also show how you can free yourself of the burden of clutter and explore how you can practice living life more intentionally so you can make room for what matters.

The story of how Uncovered Joy Came to Be

I have always loved reading my Bible. It began in grade-school when I started doing Bible quizzing with my church. I loved that I was able to read the Bible, verse-by-verse, and engage with the whole text. I enjoyed memorizing scripture and seeing the bigger picture of God’s redemptive story as I learned more about God and His Character. Throughout high-school, I continued with quizzing, memorizing huge chunks of scripture and deepening my relationship with God.

It wasn’t until collage that I realized that not everyone experienced the same joy and hunger for God’s word. As my schedule became busier and busier, I myself started to lose my desire to grow in my relationship with Christ. And through some life events, I found myself struggling with depression. After many months of feeling like I had no purpose or value, through the help of a counselor, I began to realize that when my identity is truly found in God, I have a refuge from any trial.

Anytime a negative thought entered my head, I was able to replace it with a truth from God that I had memorized years earlier. I continued this practice of speaking the truths of God in my life, and over time, God healed me and filled me with Joy.

After collage, I wanted to equip others with the same ability to experience God’s joy in their lives. So I started a blog.

Well, that failed.

In an attempt to reach my goals, I decided to move across the country. Taking only what fit into my small car, I learned how to live on my own while working full time and pursuing a master’s degree. Although I still delighted in God’s word, I allowed life to become so busy that my time with God was squeezed thin.

So, I closed down the blog.

Lucky for me, God had so much more for me than I could ever ask or imagine. He dropped an amazing man into my life (No, I did not move across the country just to meet a man). God helped me lean into the desires that I always had to help others love Him and His word. He showed me that I could be a wife, mother, and mentor.

Through God’s grace, I now have a platform where I can share with others the Joy that is Uncovered in daily life when you walk with God.

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Goals

If you can’t tell, Uncovered Joy has many goals. But they all stem from the same overarching theme: helping you uncover joy in everyday life because of the cross. To do this, I have split the blog into six main goals or categories.

Bible Study – It is my desire to have a free Bible Study that walks you through the entire Bible in just one year. This Bible study can be completed in as little as 15 minutes a day, or take as long as you have with its background information and application questions.
Bible Journaling – One of my favorite ways to engage with scripture is through Journaling. I love the artistic side (although I am not artistic in the slightest), and I love the ability to write my notes directly in my Bible so that they are there the next time I need them. In this blog, I give many examples, tips, and tricks, so you can encounter God’s word in a new way too.
Christian Living – I know I am not the only one who has questions about what it means to live as a Christian. Whenever a new question comes up, I like to answer it to the best of my ability, sharing what I’ve learned and the resources I’ve used with you.
Slow Living – My favorite part of slow living is that it is simply learning to live intentionally. Throughout this blog, I share why I believe this is an inherently Christian concept, and I show you how to practice slow living in everyday life.
Minimalism – A fun caveat of slow living is minimalism. This is the idea that less is more, and life is more fun when you have less to worry about. Less stuff means more time for what you enjoy.
Cleaning and Organization – Of course, having less stuff doesn’t mean you never need to clean. I share my best cleaning hacks to save you time and help you enjoy the process. I am also a big fan of “clean” cleaning products, so I share all my favorite, non-toxic finds.

Values: the story of uncovered joy

As you have (hopefully) noticed, God is very Important to me. My relationship with Him is what guides me throughout the day, and my Christian faith is the cornerstone of everything I do.

Faith-centered living

I believe that studying the Bible is important for every Christian, because we need to know the Words of God to remain strong in our faith. His word should be what directs every area of your life as you grow in your relationship with Him. I believe that Bible journaling is a great tool for engaging with the text as we explore what God has to say to us through His word.

Simplicity and Slow Living

I am committed to intentionally living every day in simplicity for the glory of God. Because living with less can lead to a more abundant and joyful life. I value the importance of slowing down, being mindful, and finding contentment in the present moment.

Authenticity

Uncoveredjoy.com is written solely by me. It is an open dialogue of my own current walk with God and a reflection of my desire to grow in relationship with Him. I strive to be genuine and honest in all my content, sharing both my successes and failures, knowing that I answer to God and I am under His authority.

Community

I believe in the power of fellowship and community. Because of this, I encourage you to find a local community of believers where you can encourage one another and not give up meeting together. I also aim to build a supportive and encouraging space online for you as we engage in God’s word together.

What you can expect from Uncovered Joy

Content overview

At Uncovered Joy, you can expect a variety of content designed to inspire and equip you on your journey to a joyful life. From tips on slow living and minimalism to Bible study guides and Christian living advice, I aim to provide meaningful, practical, and uplifting content. I also love sharing creative ideas for Bible journaling to help you connect and engage with scripture in a new way.

Frequency

After a year of putting out one post a week, I am now shifting over to two! This is an exciting time for Uncovered Joy as I expand on what I have already built, making sure to deliver even more great resources to you. So be sure to check back often or subscribe to my newsletter for the latest updates.

Join the Journey

If you are a young mother, like me, looking for ways to connect with God and grow in your relationship with Him, then join me in this journey to uncovering joy. Feel free to reach out to me through email, leave comments on any post, or follow me on pinterest to keep up to date. Together, we can build communities that support and encourage one another.

Continue learning more about the story of Uncovered joy

If you have stuck around with me to the end of this post, then continue reading more! Feel free to take a look around the blog, and leave a comment below about which category you resonate the most with.

There you have it! The story behind Uncovered Joy and the mission of the blog!

Simplifying life Biblically – how to focus on what matters

Filed Under: Slow Living // June 4, 2024

This post is all about simplifying life biblically, what it means for you, and how to do it.

Do you struggle with overwhelm? Too many things in your house or appointments on your calendar. This post is for you! In it, you will discover the secret to living a more fulfilling life by finally doing the things that matter and rejecting the distractions that try to deter you from them!

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Making time for what’s important: the purpose of simplifying life

Do you often feel overwhelmed by this world? Maybe it’s the constant rushing from one activity to the next. Perhaps you have too many deadlines at work to meet, or maybe you turn on the news and can’t stand to hear about the evil in this world.

Whatever the case may be, Jesus did not come to give you an overwhelmed life, but rather an abundant life (John 10:10). He came to give you peace that surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:7) and hope for your future (Jeremiah 29:11). These things are found in Jesus, and it is only through Him that you can truly live.

But how do you experience life in Jesus when you are always on the go? The key is learning how to simplify your life by saying “no” to what doesn’t matter and “yes” to what does.

Having true intimacy and connection with God is difficult for us in this modern world because our lives are too chaotic and cluttered. Learning to prioritize time with God by saying “no” to the noise of life will help you in simplifying your life Biblically.

Seeking first the kingdom of God

Jesus tells us to seek first the kingdom of heaven and His righteousness, and everything else will come later (Matthew 6:33). The key to simplifying life is to seek God first, putting Him first in everything. As you do that, your perspective will start to shift as you become kingdom-focused. You will start to realize that the things you once considered important aren’t that valuable after all.

Seeking first the kingdom of God means pursuing God. It means spending time in His word and growing in your relationship with Him. It means learning how to pray and talk to him as so many of the patriarchs did. Although this may sound like more boxes on your list to complete – which is the opposite of living simply – seeking God first changes your perspective and clarifies what is really important in your life.

Uncovering Biblical principles for simplifying life

Although the Bible may not contain a neat and tidy checklist of “21 ways to simplify your life,” there are many verses that give you principles to live by. These principles, when applied to how you view the world, will give you an overwhelming peace for whatever comes your way.

Disclaimer: a time to simplify and a time to step out

Part of simplifying biblically is knowing that you don’t always have to simplify. Maybe it isn’t the right season for you to declutter. Or maybe God is actually asking you to step up and step out. Whatever the season you are going through, remember to keep your eyes on Jesus, who truly is the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2).

Understanding the call to simplifying life

Simplify means to make something simple. Does that describe your life? For most of us, the answer is “no, not at all.” I think Jesus must have known this because all throughout the Bible He simplified His teachings so that everyone could understand.

When asked what the most important command was, he simply answered: “love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. The second greatest command is like it: love your neighbor as yourself” (Matthew 22:36-40). If all of the laws and prophets hang on these two commands, then we should probably start here in seeking first the kingdom of God and learning to live Biblically. And the best way to begin loving God and your neighbor is to simplify everything else that doesn’t contribute to that goal.

how to simplify Biblically — Is it time for simplifying life, or stepping out in faith?

Overwhelmed by the demands of modern life

In a fast-paced world of short-form content creation, keeping up with the Joneses, and endless new products to buy, places to go, and people to imitate, it is easy to get overwhelmed. It seems that there is always something to be done, leaving no time for God or loving His creation. The key to living simply is identifying what is taking your time away from you. What is causing you distractions? And what you can let go of.

The culture of busyness: distractions and noise

I once heard a saying “who the devil cannot dissuade, he distracts.” What a terrifying idea! The fact is, I know the devil will never be able to deter me from following Christ and serving Him, but there have been many times that I have gotten so distracted that I just don’t have time for Him.

Perhaps you are right there with me. The time in your day seems to slip away and before you know it, all those good intentions of spending time in the Word are gone as your head hits the pillow after another long, exhausting day.

The gospel of John tells us that “the thief comes to steal, kill, and destroy.” He wants to make it so that we have no joy in life. He delights when we are so overwhelmed by the chaos of life that we have no time to go to the comforter and father of peace. But there is good news in John 10:10, Jesus says that although the thief has come to steal your joy, He has come so that you may have abundant life in Him. But in order to live the life God has called you to, you must learn to listen to His voice above all of the noise.

Discovering what truly matters by simplifying life

It comes as no surprise that when people are on their death-bed, thinking about what they wished they had done differently during their lives, almost everyone says they wished that they had spent more time on relationships. They regret the business of life; long work days, too many extracurriculars, and too much time wasted on pointless activity. They desire more time with family and loved ones.

If you have this knowledge now, then why don’t you use it? Why don’t you take the time now to discover what truly matters? If you knew you were going to die next week, would you be content living with what you have scheduled on your calendar? Or would you make more time for being in the Word and enjoying the important people in your life?

Embracing simplicity in a materialistic world

This world tries to sell us the image of having the perfect life, which includes achieving success in your career so you have enough money to keep up with all the trends and take all the vacations. Marketers have created the perfect strategy of using influencers so you will buy their products. Each article promising in it’s own way to make your life better.

Unfortunately, that leaves most people with too many possessions and not enough time or energy to enjoy them.

Enjoying simplicity in a materialistic world means taking a look around you and asking yourself what you really need. What are the things in your house that are both functional and enjoyable? What are the activities that you do every day that bring you new life? And what weighs you down?

The difference between culture and kingdom values: detaching from material possessions

Culture is constantly telling you that you need to be more and do more. But God is telling you that it is already done. When Jesus died on the cross he simply exclaimed “It is finished.” In a single moment, he made Old Testament laws of sacrifice void as He fulfilled them by giving His life as a ransom for yours.

The difference between culture and the Kingdom comes in what you value. Jesus said that men cannot serve both God and money (Matthew 6:24). Do you serve God alone? Or do you allow your physical possessions to get in the way? This can happen both by spending your money on buying more things, but also by spending your time to upkeep what you have. Perhaps it is time to let go of some of your possessions so you can free yourself of the burden of keeping them.

Simplifying life means finding contentment in every situation

One of the reasons people become so attached to what they have is because they think that their possessions bring them happiness. While there is nothing inherently wrong in taking delight in what you own, a problem arises when your happiness is based on it.

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Finding your Contentment in Christ

Paul was an apostle of Christ who wrote much of the New Testament. He was beaten, flogged, stoned, imprisoned, shipwrecked, constantly on the move, and in danger wherever he went (2 Corinthians 11:23-29). Yet through all of this, he wrote that he “knew the secret to being content whatever the situation” (Philippians 4:11-13). This secret was that nothing in this world matters apart from loving God and His people. Paul was able to be content because his joy was found in christ alone.

Is your joy found in Christ or the things of this world? Are you content with the blessings God has already given you, or are you constantly looking for the next best thing?

Simplifying life means practicing gratitude

One of the best ways to be content is to practice gratitude. Purposefully being thankful reminds us of what we have, how blessed we are, and that we are not in need.

Paul, in his final remarks to the Thessalonians, reminds them to “rejoice always and give thanks in all circumstances” (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18). It is not enough to only be grateful when life is good. Rather, you must make time to practice gratitude no matter the situation you are facing. Gratitude journals are a great way to keep an account of the things you are thankful for.

Writing down three things you are grateful for every day can help you simplify your life by showing you that you have enough. Practicing gratitude helps usher in contentment and peace as you reflect on the blessings God has given to you.

Rejecting the comparison trap

So often, we compare ourselves to others, thinking that they are better in some area of their life. God knew this would be a problem for all of humanity, and in the 10 commandments, he instructs “you shall not covet your neighbor’s house. You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, or his male or female servant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor” (Exodus 20:17).

Social media makes it easy to want what others have. Their perfect lives on display for all to see. Reject the comparison trap by finding your identity in Christ, knowing that all blessings come from Him (James 1:17). Whenever you start to feel yourself becoming jealous, take a moment to reflect on if you are content with the blessings God has given you. Take some time to be grateful for what you have.

Simplifying life means focusing on relationships

One of the many reasons people choose to complicate their lives is because they are trying to fill the void that comes from not having meaningful relationships. Whether with God or people, relationships are key for helping you feel connected and valued.

Taking time to sit at Jesus’ feet

When visiting the home of Martha in Luke 10:38-42, Jesus began teaching those present. Martha was busy, distracted by all the preparations that had been made. She was doing the work that needed to be done. But her sister Mary, instead of helping, chose to sit at Jesus’ feet, learning from Him. Martha became frustrated as most of us would. Here she was, dutifully running the household, ensuring that everyone had what they needed, while her sister had the nerve to sit and listen to the great teacher who had come to HER house.

Here, the problem is not that Martha knew things had to be done. It is that she became distracted by work and angry that her sister was not. Martha chose responsibility. Mary chose relationship. Of course, there is always work that needs to be done. But does the work you are doing need to come before you sit at Jesus’ feet and learn from Him? Does your perceived responsibility come before forming relationships with those around you?

Biblical perspectives on relationships

We were not called to life this life alone. From the very beginning, God created man and said “it is not good for man to be alone” (Genesis 2:18). All throughout the Bible, we see examples of relationships – both good and bad – and we receive instruction about how we are to live in relationship.

Although this is not a post about relationships, it is important to note that one of the reasons for simplifying life is to have time to build and work on relationships. People are important, and making time for relationships in an integral aspect of what Jesus had called us to do.

Prioritizing what matters – simplifying life by focusing on Christ

Often simplifying life is just re-ordering your priorities so that you spend less time and money on what does’t matter and more on what does. Do you know what matters in your life?

Prioritizing prayer and meditation allows for simplifying life

How often do you make time to pray? Talking to God is one of the best ways to simplify life. Priorities in your life start to become clear as you spend time with the creator of the universe. You cannot expect your perspective in life to change unless you spend time with someone who thinks differently than you, and God is the One who you should want to draw close to.

Even Jesus spent dedicated time in prayer, talking to God. Mark 1:35 tells us that He got up very early in the morning, while it was still dark, and went off to a solitary placed where He prayed. What do you think Jesus had to talk so urgently to God about that He would wake up in the wee hours of the morning and go to where there were no distractions?

I think it’s possible that He was just talking to His father about the day. About anything and everything He could think of. Hopes and dreams. Sorrows and pains. Just as Jesus went openly to God, prioritizing time spent with Him, we also should make time to keep God first in our lives.

biblical simple life — What do you value?

Focusing on essential spiritual disciplines

One of the key purposes to simplifying life is to make time for what truly matters. Without necessarily meaning to, the early church gave us a great example of what this looked like. Acts 2:42-47 gives us a picture of what should be prioritized.

They devoted themselves to the apostles teaching. For you, this is listening to sermons from your pastor and taking notes, engaging with what he says and testing it against scripture to see if it is true (Acts 17:11). It’s reading your Bible faithfully, not merely listening to what it says, but also applying it to your life (James 1:22-25).

Christians are called to fellowship. For you, this is spending time with other believers, engaging with them and caring about their joys and struggles. It’s confessing your own struggles and sins to them (James 5:16). You are called to be kind and compassionate toward others (Ephesians 4:32).

The early church devoted themselves to breaking bread together. This was more than just sharing a meal, but also sharing in each other’s physical needs. You are called to create time for breaking bread with your fellow believers.

The apostles sold everything they had. They knew that simplifying life would create an atmosphere for deepened relationships with God and fellow believers. Simplifying life was a natural step for focusing on the essential spiritual disciplines that they were learning.

Avoiding religious overload – matthew 11:28-30 – rest in Christ

Part of simplifying life is spending more time growing in relationships and decluttering your house. But part of simplifying life is also knowing when to say “no” to things so that you can truly rest in Christ.

God does not want you to live an overwhelmed life, but an abundant one. A life that bears fruit for all to see (John 15). But the first step you may need to take into that life is resting in God.

Matthew 11:28-30 has a personal invitation from Jesus to you: “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

Do you need to rest in Jesus today?

Related post: My Soul Finds Rest In God Alone

Setting healthy limits: knowing when to say no

It can be difficult to know when to day “no” to things. But here is a general guideline.

If the things God has called you to are suffering: home, family, devotional time, etc… then it’s time to say no to everything else that causes distractions.

Take a moment to consider your life. Are you prioritizing what needs to be valued, or are you allowing the distractions to dictate your life?

Honoring God with your time and energy

The Levitical Priests were called to give God the best and holiest of everything they had (Numbers 18:29). You have that same instruction for your life. So are you giving God your best? Or do you reserve your leftovers for Him? Start simplifying your life by making God a priority and giving Him the time, energy, and money that is due Him.

Simplifying life – a practical guide

biblical minimalism — Which tip is most helpful for your journey towards a simpler life?

Simplifying life is hard. But these tips and resources will help you in your journey.

Be still and know

Before you begin the process of simplifying your life, take a moment to be still before God (Psalm 46:10). Reflect on the fact that He is God and you are not. His name will be exalted among the nations. If you are unsure of how to be still before God, this post may help.

Trusting in God’s guidance and provision

Perhaps the reason you find it hard to simplify your life and declutter is because you find security in your possessions. Maybe their presence brings you comfort, or you find value in their monetary worth.

Instead of placing your identity in your stuff, place it in Christ. Allow Him to guide you and trust in His provision.

Making room for margin – psalm 23 and restoring our souls

In your overwhelm, you may feel as if there is no time to add rest to your calendar.

Intentional living

Part of the reason for simplifying life is learning to live more intentionally. Although this is difficult to master, the more you practice living for what you value, the easier it comes. Try carving out a day a week where you intentionally take time to focus on what matters and let everything else fall to the wayside.

Invitation for simplifying your life

Are you tired of feeling overwhelmed and disconnected in today’s fast-paced world? Now is the time to take a step back and focus on what really matters. Jesus offers you an abundant life filled with hope and peace. Start today by prioritizing time with God and relationships with others. Say “no” to the distractions that pull you away from living life with purpose, and embrace a simpler, more fulfilling life.

Start your journey towards a simpler, more fulfilled life today. Say “yes” to what truly matters and experience the abundant life Jesus promises.

This post was all about simplifying life to live more abundantly in what truly matters.